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Oct
2007

Friday Blog

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So...a cute little pixie we all know and love thought it was time I blogged. If you only knew !!! I have nothing to say! I know !!! How totally odd,hee,heee! So let's see.Early this morning I got up to the neatest storm. High winds blowing the bright yellow,red and orange leaves off the trees and swirling them in mid air. The flashes of lightning lite everything for a moment and it was a odd and beautiful sight. It's calmed down now and I'm sitting here so sick. Everything goes right to my lungs,so high temp.,trouble inhaling...poooo. I've had pneumonia so many times and came close to dieing from it three years ago,touch and go for two weeks in the hospital,in and out of consciousness. So trying to take it easy but did too much yesterday. Me sick!!!

The one event that was so neat was last weekend. My dearest DIL,a truely wonderful spirit,invited me to go to her first preaching job at her old church,the one she attended as a child. The place means a lot to her. It is a beautiful building,before the turn of the century,just what you'd expect in an old church. The massive organ that fills the front of the church,the leaded windows with rich interesting scenes on them allowing the coloured sunlight to flow over the massive wooden pews,all very inviting. I'm not what you would call a church person but this church I do have a tie to. My son and daughter in law were married there. I have a strong connection to the formal hyms of the church as they draw me to my Grandmother who loved her church. So this church is not in my hometown but in a former home town so the only vechicle running is the huge and some what ornery one ton van. The thing is huge...likes it when it's driven by my Hubby but I really think the thing dislikes me...probably over heard me bad mouth it. That could be it as Hubby talks lovingly to the over powered gas sucking thing. It has massive one ton air shocks that Hubby loves..and super trailer hitch brakes and all them there extra do daps. The thing rides like a attraction ride if the shocks are high,even poor dog can't take it. I discovered why when we went to the town over to see a movie and I sat in back!!! Good god Ye all! Hang on for dear life! Rides perfect if there's a ton of equipment in it...but this day it's empty. Good! Off I go by myself cause I want to be there. After 40 minutes I scurry up and find my place and it was lovely. My DIL speaks from the heart and truely believes in the path she is on. She feels the call to be a minister so I support her. After the service the buzz is the people shaking hands and talking and slowly leaving the church for the rest of their Sunday to start. I spotted my Dil during the service becoming emotional so I gave her that look! She knows it from me...haaa,haaa, the "You don't say?????? Look! I could tell she read it like that. But know I see her moving among the people in total comfort enjoying the contact. The talk is about themselves,the families,the events, the surmon. She moves towards me and is caught up again! Over all she is so relaxed and is grace itself. Then,when she finally got to me I was so pleased to see her and ...of course..get my hug! I invited them to come to the house before they headed back to their home but they had forgetten a trip they had to make so they would come down to our place next visit in. So off I trotted to haul myself up into the van. Big van was nice to me...after all I'd just been to church!

So the surprise was later in the evening when DIL and son dropped in when I knew they didn't have the time. She gave me a bundle of flowers??? I couldn't believe my eyes when I unwrapped the most beautiful roses in all the hues of pink! Dark ones,intensly pink ones,soft gentle pinks and one almost blue and one almost purple. Just an amazing group of flowers. I was so taken a back cause the note said thank you so much for all your support. Support is something I would never think to be thanked for. It rather surprised me because it just something you do...cause you love and care for that person. Because their success and happiness is important and because you want to do it and be there. Every time I go by my roses I smile. Every time I think of my roses I smile. They are starting to drop petals now . It will be hard to let them go. But the words I'll carry close to my heart forever. She said to me when I thanked her for the surprise and too generous gift...."My heart just leaped for joy when I saw you there. " Now those are words that will be in my heart forever. Don't I have the world's best daughter in law???

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dramamom
October 2007 | dramamom
Re: Friday Blog
She sounds pretty special.


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      Marglr
October 2007 | Marglr
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She is so very special,a very precious additon to the family.


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KathrynR1402
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | KathrynR1402
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I hope you got a bit better over the weekend? Poor old lungs! At least you can enjoy the colours of autumn, and the memories of your beautiful roses and your wonderful DIL! Perhaps when you're a bit better you'll create something to remind you of all three at once? Gotta go - blue-eyed beauty just woken up!


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      Marglr
October 2007 | Marglr
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Hi Kathryn,Lungs still crappy! I have a pretty good memory but that's a great idea. Thanks!


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blackwidowkate
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | blackwidowkate
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Hi
How can you be unwell and still right such a beautiful blog
When i am unwell my blog shows it yet yours only shows beauty and love
You truly are one very blessed special lady and it is my priviledge to be getting to know you.
And from your Dil never a truer word spoken. 

Luv Deb


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Thank you Deb!

Yup I'm sick Baby! Still at 40 c and the old lungs are bubbling and squeaking,hurts to breath,yuk....bring me chicken soup Deb,I'm not throwing up..it's safe!!!  We can stare the the wonderous hedge,it's still warm out! I'll make you a good drink but you'll have to return for us both to have one...I won't breath on you!!!

Hope your group is all over the yukkies and your getting some rest! Take care sweet Lady



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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | llmunchkin
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Poor Marg... Hope you are feeling better, and thanks for taking the time to write another beautiful blog so that we can walk in your shoes for a moment.

Lots of luv to you - Lui XOX


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Haaaa,haaaa,I'll make sure I give you the germ free pair! I loved the picture of Jaydee in his sleepers,so cute,brought back memories of all our little sleeper clad youngin's!!!


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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | emmie
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Thank you so much for doing this blog for me and so quickly too  , im so sorry that you are sick sick sickand you deserve fflowers because you are so very special in fact i will send u some after i fed and bedded these children they are very tired already

your dil sounds like a lovely dil to have and she is also very lucky to have u also as for your day out that sounds so wonderful i personally am not a church goer but there was a church we went to as kids we went sunday school there and i went brownies there also that was also an old church i love that church i would go there anyday strange isnt it

heres hoping u feel better real soon

luv emz xxx



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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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It is strange the connections we keep in our mind. I like this church though cause it includes the kiddies before they go off to sunday school which I think is so nice. I remember...back in the day...that we( kids) were not to be heard,glad that has changed!

p.s. I'm doing fine..just feel like ****



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           emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | emmie
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do these make u feel any better?


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                emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | emmie
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oops

MySpace and Orkut Rose Glitter Graphic - 9



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                     Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Ahhh,so pretty! YUP!!!!!!


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hermy
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | hermy
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i am so sorry to hear you are feeling poorly........i hope that you recovery is speedy........it sounds like you have a really wonderful family, and like i have said before i hope that mine turns out like that too......that is all i dream of........i have to agree with Helen and i think that with everything you do for everyone els you deserve all the flowers in the world.......you have shown me real support, support that comes from the heart, and because of that it feels as we have known each other for a life time...........i think you are one very special lady and no matter what, you always manage to put a smile on my face, and i thank you for that........my elbow is ok, just a bit bruised, did have it checked because it was so painful.......arthritis to look forward to, LOL........Ryan is still running  a bit of a fever but he looked a lot better today.....i so hope that now he is on the road to recovery........i have to admit that till today i was feeling as if i was going to have a nervous breakdown.......i so fall apart when they are sick......in the last week we have made 3 hospital visit and 2 doctors visit.......lets hope its over now........thank you so much for caring........please take care of yourself........and please keep warm........lots of love from you friend thermal chicken...........


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Warm??? Dear Thermal Chicken...I'm running enough temp. here to replace a whole power plant! Cool,soothing cool,that's what I need! Been running 40 for two days but still doing O.K.!! Thanks for the kind words dear Lady! I feel for you cause all that with the kiddies does wear you down with worry,can't help it I know cause you're a great Mom. The hospital visits suck,waiting and worrying,that's not good. AND then you add injury to yourself to the list!!! GEEESSSS Girl,go easy on yourself! Hope your little guy is right as rain soon. Then you'll need to get Hubby to take you out on the town for some fun when everyone's better! Hugs to Ryan...and his cute Mommy!


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mum2four
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | mum2four
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Dear Marg,I am sorry to hear you are unwell,I hope you start to feel better very soon ,make sure you rest and take it easy .

                                                             Cham



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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Hi Cham! How are you doing? No worries I'm hanging in there!!! Have an excuse to sit!!! heee,heeee!


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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | janicepovey
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Sensed something was wrong when you weren't doing your normal blog's.....have sent you a personal message, my friend.  This morning I have lit a candle  for you under my guardian angel statue, to watch over you.

You have one very special family, Marg......the love you all have for one another, shows through, in everything you write. All the trials, that have  happened to you & your family members....most people would not make it through the other side....but i believe it is  this deep love you all have for one another, that has pulled you all through.

You are one very wonderful & special lady.......my nature buddy.

Love Janice

xxxxxx



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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Thanks Janice,my special Nature Buddy! Thanks for the candle! This is hitting me hard, everytime everything goes to my lungs! BUT!!! Not as bad as it has been on other occasions so I'll be back at it in no time! Take care and sending out vibes your way!


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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | cazza
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Hope you feel better soon. and now i can tell you to rest and dont push your self too much..

As for your dil, she sounds so lovely, and why wouldnt she be, she has married your son, and if he is anything like you, she is blessed as well...

take care
love cazza


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Ah Cazza you're just so darn sweet,thanks. My son's pretty special!!! He fought and won against four different cancers all at the same time,very amazing young man!!! It took 4 years but he kept going.


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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Ngairi
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That is so beautiful. Sorry to hear that you are sick. Take it easy and rest up. Maybe you should collect all your rose petals when they fall.


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Now don't give me ideas!!! See me trying to glue them back on!!! LOL!!! It's been a busy day and I just made beef soup,need to crawl to chair now! Oh...wait I'm in one! Thanks Ngairi !


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Jessgore
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Yes you do... She loves you, and you are lucky.... I know a lot of girls out there that would not give their mother in-law the time of day.. And mother in-laws for that matter who would not do what you did for her.. She appreciates you...

I hope you are feeling better.. It sucks to be sick...   And I love the storms here..

I must say that Canada ( my new found nationality) is just amazing this time of year with all the colors... I really love it.. SOOOO beautiful....

Hope the rest of your friday goes off with a bang.. And a good one at that.. xxxxxx


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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Hi Jess,our newest (and the one I'm most proud of!!! )Canadian!!! Isn't the fall wonderful??? And it has been an extended fall at that!  I had fun today,got all the running around done,felt like **** sweating and dieing but I liked being out! How's Francis? Hope the poor little dear is on the mend. I can't believe it's friday already..were did this week go??? Hope you have a great weekend!


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nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | nell18-3
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Sounds to me like your DIL has the world's best Mum in law !!!!
If I could only send some flowers for every time you have reached out to me you would currently be living in a botanical garden !!!
You really are a wonderful genuine loving and supportive person and what makes you so great is you don't even know what a great help to so many that you actually are. After all look at your DIL and just what your very presence meant to her
xxx


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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ohhh,Helen a botanical garden!!! Weeeee,I'd love that! Then us worn out Ladies could sit in slendor and have our drinks,sounds good to me! LOL!! Really would that not be the best???

Actually her words will be held dear forever because it just tumbled out. It really did surprise me. LOL!!! I wish I could be there for you more Girl,if I could I would! Gotta know that!



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Arna
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Arna
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Wow.  You got some special people in your life.  Hope they know that.


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      Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | Marglr
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I do have special people around me and I hope they know what treasures they are!


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