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Well just when you think ...well what does it matter what you think or don't ... life does what you least expect. After this week of it being so very hard for the new parents in our family,dear DIL's Mother passed away yesterday morning. Daughter in Law is devastated of course but she is so upset because her Mother didn't see the Baby. Why does life bring regret when you don't deserve it??? Now this poor girl has to deal with a funeral and the feelings that she didn't do right by her Mother.
Her Mother was here for the Baby shower,I could tell it took all her strength. She was older than I am by 20 years and had many health issues. She said nothing but gave frail energies. I got the very,very strong feeling that she knew this was coming. It was important to her to talk to me. I felt she was passing on knowledge of DIL as a newborn for a reason and I made a promise to oversee the Baby. I said well yes,we would both do that of course. She became aggitated and it settled her to know I would be there for the new parents and Baby. Now I know my reading of the situation was correct. She was passing her duties to me and I will do my best to honour that for her. She was a small tiny woman but had an inner power. She knew she was near the end and it seemed O.K. with her. I acknowledge the passing of DIL's Mother but she will not be mourned as she was at peace,I will mourn for DIL who will carry this until time allows it's passage. |
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Re: Geeesss
My heart goes out to your DIL, what emotions and regrets she must be trying to deal with, she will need you more than ever Marg, to help comfort her and maybe let her know what her Mum conveyed to you at the baby shower, it might just give her some peace of mine.
As you said Marg, her regret of her dear mother not seeing her grandson, must be overwhelming to her at the moment, but i'm sure with time and the love & support from you all, this will lesson with time....i so feel for her, especially with the events of the past couple of weeks, health wise with herself & bub and now the passing of her dear Mum.....i send her all the strength vibes to be able to cope & all the healing vibes to continue for herself & Sean.
I will light a candle for her dear mum, for her journey to be a peaceful one knowing that she passed her duties onto a loving Mum.
Our Sympathy & prayers go to your DIL and the whole family.
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Hi Marg,
That is so very very sad and I really feel for your DIL . . . you DIL has been through so much since the birth of her little one and then having to face the passing of her mum after everything else seems cruel . . Your DIL is very lucky to have such a very supportive MIL and I know she will draw from your strength . . .
My heart goes out to you and your extended family . .
God looked around his garden and found a special empty place.
Then he looked down upon this earth and saw your DIL's mums tired face
He put his arms around her and lifted her to rest
God's garden is really beautiful as it does really only take the best . ..
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