Today was Xavier's 5th birthday, he went to school with his big sister and Warren and I made him a cake to take to school. He was so excited and loved doing that. Tomorrow we are having his birthday party in the yard with a jumping castle. He was allowed to invite 5 friends from school and he cant wait! I remember when he was born, he's my biggest baby so far, looks just like his dad but is his mum's boy! Loves playing the XBox 360 and PS2, he loves to dance, true he got some deadly moves!!!

Happy Birthday Handsome Boy. Mummy and Daddy love you so much and hope you have a great day on Saturday.

 My Mum came to visit for Christmas and was here for 6 days, it was too hot she reckons so she left... just feeling abit down, hadnt seen her for over a year. 

I hope the trip home is safe for her and I loved having her here, she will have to come during the winter months, she reckons she had never sweated so much in her life! 

I miss her sooo much!

 Today, my girl Arya had her end of school performance, she also recieved the prep award for the year!!! Warren and I are so proud of her and got really teary eyed when they annouced who had done so well all year, her name was also put on the plaque which will remain at the school! Just thinking about it brings tears to my eyes! I didnt think they did report cards for Preps but at Arya's school they do and she had all A's!!!

I love skiting up my kids but I was never one of them parents who had to one up everyone elses kids... who know.... well MY child can do this! Thats not what I do. I find that I can talk about them for hours, they make my heart melt and I am truly blessed to have them. My Mum says they are a gift from GOD and are truly his, he gave them to me to look after them till he gets them back.

Well done babe, Mum and Dad love you so very much!

Warren and I havent spoken to his mum since Septmeber of this year, she threatened to take action against us in regards to the children. Warren disciplines them and she cant stand it because of the way she was disciplined as a child and believes Warren is just as bad as her father was with her and her bro and sis. Warren has never discilplined them for no reason, they got a smack and a good talking too, Warren explains why they got smacked and its not on to do what they did. She made it about herself, about how she was raised and what her dad did to her and her bro and sis. Apparently, he was a real hard man who would go on and on and would flog them for no reason.

She knows we are getting Warrens 2 older boys this Christmas so she has told Warrens sister who lives with us that she was sending us an apology via email, this was a few weeks ago and still nothing, Warren says its because she doesnt know what to say because she doesnt know how to apologise for doing the wrong thing. We know its because she will want to see all her grandchildren this Christmas and not because she means the apology.

She said to my sister in law that she had lost all respect for me because I didnt call and apologise when all thie went down and I was sleeping with the 2 bubs when this happened! So thats what I'm wild about.