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Feb
2007

GAY MALE PARENTS

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Gay male parents are often frowned upon by a society that is more accpeting of female gay partents? I would like to know why society thinks like this and if anyone thinks differently?

Gay males seem to be catagorized in the same catagory as paedophiles when it comes to the care of  children and this deeply dusturbs me as a functional, well adjusted gay male?

Why are gay males  unfairly marginalized in this way by a society that lacks insight. Gay male parents have limited rights in society with respect to this and I think that this is unfair and unjust. Similarly gay females who are parents also lack human rights by comparison to hetrosexual parents?

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RebeccaDorant
March 2007 | RebeccaDorant
cheer up mate
it saddens me to here that gay and lesbian parents are treated this way because i have a lesbian sil and she and her partner hope to have a child one day. i really have no problems with same sex couples and i think its so beautiful that they will go to so much effort to have a child of their own. it's amazing but i believe that gay parents are perhaps better at the job sometimes than us hetros because they see past difference and are much more adept at accepting people, including their own children, for who they are and what they want to be. so please cheer up, the world is not really as bad as it sometimes seems.  :)'s for you frum becca


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exquisite-flower
March 2007 | exquisite-flower
Takes all sorts
Honestly, I think that it takes all sorts to make life work, and there are plenty of examples of heterosexual relationships that are detrimental to children. 

I have not looked into statistics, but I believe that because of marginalisation by society (in general) people who are in different circs, eg gay parents will try harder to make life happy and secure for their children  (another generalisation), because they have so much more to fight for, but just as much to offer as any other human being. 

Peace
EF.x 


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Izzy
4.00 (Good) | February 2007 | Izzy
gay male parents

I think this may be due to traditional gender roles; women are homemakers and carers of the family, while males are workers and providers. So if there are 2 female parents, people generally think they have more of a right to have kids because females are more nurturing than 2 male parents.

Obviously this thinking is flawed, as in all "absolute" kind of thinking.... all gays are___, all americans are ____, all australians are ____. We can never categorize ALL people a certain way.

In my personal opinion, parents should be judged by their individual merit. I'm sure there are gay male parents out there that are doing better than gay female parents and vice versa.



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monyq83
4.00 (Good) | February 2007 | monyq83
Youre 100% right.

I couldnt agree with you more. The way society treats gay parents, (and basically just gay people in general) absolutely disgusts me. So what if they are of the same sex? Isnt the fact that they love each other more important than their gender? What would you like children to have to go thru more, - a family environment with two heterosexual parents that argue constantly, (and no im not saying this is the case for every hetero family I am only using it as an example) or a family with homosexual parents, who love each other more than words can describe? I know what I would be choosing for my children.

My best friend is gay and I love him to bits. Although I have been labelled a 'fag hag' to be honest I couldnt give a damn. All I want is for him to be happy, and for him to enjoy being the fantastic person he is.

Its not the 1920s anymore, it's time for people to come out of the closet, and for society to accept them for who they are, without all the prejudice.

Hope youre having a great weekend, MonyQ.



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      matlewis
February 2007 | matlewis
Youre 100% right.
Thank you :o)

Mat.


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