http://www.minti.com/members/mcm/advice/ Most Recent Advice on Minti by mcm Copyright 2009 Minti en-uk mcm Our youngest son has been in cloth since he was born. We have never needed to use a disposable nappy. My other children all were in disposables for a time. I have discovered what works for us and find cloth very easy and most desirable to use. I hope that our experience may help others.J is 6 months. He has ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/11580/Which-MCN-we-use-and-why/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/11580/Which-MCN-we-use-and-why/ Tue, 07 Apr 2009 22:28:51 -0700 mcm I am not a Dad but my husband is! He often carried our babies in arms (that is, without a carrier) rather than fuss with the pram. He carried our third child in the Ergo when we would go on outings. He also had a Bear Hugs stretchy pouch. I bought one for him when I bought myself one. They ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/11451/Babywearing-Dads/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/11451/Babywearing-Dads/ Thu, 12 Mar 2009 19:35:12 -0700 mcm I obviously haven't tried all baby carriers but I have tried the main types of carrier. I thought I would write about my babywearing journey especially after reading this article by winja where she shares some great information. I will try not to repeat but only to reiterate.When I had my first child I was given a Snugli. I used ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/11450/My-babywearing-journey/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/11450/My-babywearing-journey/ Thu, 12 Mar 2009 18:53:49 -0700 mcm We met with our children's teachers this week to discuss their learning. They discussed what they expected of the children to help them optimise how and what they learn, such as being prepared for the day, having breakfast, getting enough sleep and not running late for school start. As well as bringing water to school and other little important things.What ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/11380/The-Importance-of-Conversing-with-Our-Children/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/11380/The-Importance-of-Conversing-with-Our-Children/ Thu, 26 Feb 2009 17:19:10 -0800 mcm Trust Your Instincts.I believe mothers in particular are far from encouraged to trust in ther instincts. I don't feel that people trust me as a mother to be responsible or do my best for my children. Its a sad thing. I have found the more I go against my instincts the more I feel stressed and things go awry.Trust Your ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/10949/My-Only-Advice/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/10949/My-Only-Advice/ Mon, 19 Jan 2009 02:00:16 -0800 mcm What is babywearing?Babywearing is exactly that. Wearing your baby with the aid of fabric!Why wear your baby?Wearing your baby can be beneficial for you and the baby. Baby feels safe and secure next to you especially near your heart. It can help with bonding and makes it easier to respond to their needs so they tend to cry less.There are ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/10466/Babywearing-Options/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/10466/Babywearing-Options/ Sat, 29 Nov 2008 02:31:48 -0800 mcm My youngest is now 2 months old and not so tiny anymore but I do vaguely remember him being small! He at least started out small. I had a few options to try out when nappying him. Flats cut in half were easy as I just used a PUL wrap over the flats folded in three (trifold). Same with prefolds ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/10417/Cloth-on-a-newborn/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/10417/Cloth-on-a-newborn/ Tue, 25 Nov 2008 21:19:02 -0800 mcm Caring for yourself during prenancy is the best thing you can do for your unborn child.. The health of the mother should be of utmost concern. When you care for the mother you care for the baby. What is prenatal care?When you are pregnant its important that you take care of yourself more than any other time before. Things you ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/10155/Pregnancy-Care/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/10155/Pregnancy-Care/ Tue, 25 Nov 2008 21:58:08 -0800 mcm Baby Led WeaningThe guidelines on when and what you should feed your child as you wean have changed over the years. Now it is recommended you don't start solids til at least 6 months. At this stage runny baby rice may not be suitable especially as they may have teeth and enjoy putting other things with in their mouth!Taste is ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/10154/Baby-Led-Weaning/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/10154/Baby-Led-Weaning/ Sat, 08 Nov 2008 17:03:53 -0800 mcm The Importance of Prenatal CareWhat is prenatal care?When you are pregnant its important that you take care of yourself more than any other time before. Things you may have not thought of before such as what you eat may become an issue. Some foods (not to mention drugs) are best avoided while some foods are very important in your diet.Even ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9722/The-Importance-of-Prenatal-Care/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9722/The-Importance-of-Prenatal-Care/ Sat, 11 Oct 2008 20:38:53 -0700 mcm I had a wonderful pregnancy. I suffered mild morning sickness or nausea and had some mild ailments but it wasn't uncomfortable like my other pregnancies. I had an unassisted pregnancy which means I didn't see a doctor or midwife for antenatal care. I cared for myself  and did all I could to remain in good health. This included eating right, ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9463/Unassisted-birth-of-J-my-way/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9463/Unassisted-birth-of-J-my-way/ Wed, 08 Oct 2008 19:19:16 -0700 mcm I am still pregnant awaiting the arrival of the newest member of our family. I am trying to keep busy and keep organised. Nesting and preparing for baby can keep your mind off the pregnancy. It can be hard when people expect babies to arrive on time or even before 40 weeks. My first child arrived 3 days over my ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9397/40-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9397/40-weeks/ Fri, 12 Sep 2008 01:03:55 -0700 mcm The countdown begins. If you have't yet had your baby, it wont be long before you are holding the newest member of your family. Its important you keep a balance of rest, exercise and other activities. Continue to take care of yourself and your baby by eating well.If your baby has been born they weigh an average 3.5kg and measure ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9310/38-39-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9310/38-39-weeks/ Fri, 12 Sep 2008 00:05:40 -0700 mcm Now full term your baby's organs are fully formed. Your baby will spend the rest of its time in the womb getting fatter and forming suffacant in the lungs to help take his first breaths.  34cm from the crown to rump and may weigh around 2900g.Tiredness is common as its harder to get into comfortable sleeping positions. Try to keep ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9266/37weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9266/37weeks/ Sun, 24 Aug 2008 23:49:25 -0700 mcm Most babies are now in a head down position ready for birth. 4 % may be in a breech position ie. bottom down. The head may be engaged at this time but less likely if this is not your first baby. You will feel the baby's head settling into the pelvis.Your baby's heartbeat is faster than yours at 110-150 beats ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9224/35-36-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9224/35-36-weeks/ Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:23:11 -0700 mcm Your baby will be about 2.5kgs and measure 30cm in length from head to bottom. The next few weeks will be a time for your baby to build up layers of fat. Also bones will become stronger so remember to kep up your calcium intake. I found with my eldest son in particular that he was taking from my teeth. ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9223/33-34-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9223/33-34-weeks/ Sun, 10 Aug 2008 22:17:37 -0700 mcm Now baby will start to store his own nutrients for infancy after birth. Iron is one and DHA (fatty acids) is another. Iron helps with growth and DHA for brain growth and development. Your diet should be high in iron, vitamin C and fatty acids so you wont be low.Baby weighs around 1800 grams and measures 28cm from bottom to ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9129/31-32-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9129/31-32-weeks/ Mon, 14 Jul 2008 20:01:59 -0700 mcm Your baby now weighs approximately 1.3kg and is around 27cm from crown to rump.Red blood cell manufacture will start in your baby's bone marrow around now. Like other developments in late pregnancy this is a step toward your baby being able to live independently.You may find that you can recognise some sleeping and waking patterns ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9082/29-30-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9082/29-30-weeks/ Fri, 04 Jul 2008 00:33:01 -0700 mcm Up until now, your baby has been developing his organs and this is the growth that has occurred thus far. Now fat stores will begin to be laid on in preparation for birth. The skin will appear less wrinkly as the layers of fat appear.Your baby weighs just over a kilogram and measures from head to toe about  38cms. In ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9030/28-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9030/28-weeks/ Wed, 18 Jun 2008 18:33:14 -0700 mcm Been slack in writing about my pregnancy. Who would have thought I could enjoy pregnancy? I am enjoying an unassisted pregnancy for those who are interested. I am taking care of myself.I have  had some back pain and lethargy. I have successfully tried rest and gentle exercise. It does seem to help. Also eating low GI foods and trying to ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8991/25-27-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8991/25-27-weeks/ Wed, 11 Jun 2008 21:43:50 -0700 mcm Baby's eyes are developing. The cells in the retina are growing rapidly.  Your baby will be aware of his senses as he will take note of your heartbeat, voice and movement.After a baby is born, he will be most easily soothed by things that may remind them of being in the womb such as rhythmic patting, gentle rocking and hearing ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8889/24-weeks-/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8889/24-weeks-/ Tue, 20 May 2008 21:21:24 -0700 mcm You must be feeling pregnant now with stronger more defined movement from baby. It does depend though as all pregnancies and babies  are different. My eldest child was not much of a kicker. She did like to stretch out, so much so, that you could see  it on the outside! My eldest son was the Bruce Lee of babies. Meanwhile ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8869/23-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8869/23-weeks/ Tue, 13 May 2008 20:12:44 -0700 mcm Baby hasn't any fat under his skin just yet so it appears wrinkled. It also looks red due to blood vessels being close to the surface of the skin. Fine hair called lanugo covers the skin and is mostly shed before baby is born if he/she  arrives full term.Iron is essential especially at this time when you are carrying a ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8831/22-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8831/22-weeks/ Wed, 07 May 2008 21:10:42 -0700 mcm At 21 weeks, you are now approaching 5 months. Now your baby's hearing is forming. The bones of the inner ear is harder and more solid. Baby is now 19cm long from crown (head) to rump (bottom) and weighs 460grams. Almost half a kilo!Your baby will be covered in vernix. This is a protective coating from all the liquid he ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8763/21-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8763/21-weeks/ Wed, 30 Apr 2008 17:54:17 -0700 mcm You are now officially halfway. Congratulations!It is believed if your belly button is going to pop out then it would have already. Mine is usually very deep but now not so much. It has never come out in any of my pregnancies.Your baby is protected by a lot of liquid called amniotic fluid. It helps to protect baby not unlike ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8703/20-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8703/20-weeks/ Wed, 23 Apr 2008 18:38:51 -0700 mcm Approaching halfway, at 19 weeks, the fetus measures 16cm from crown (head) to rump (bottom). The placenta has finished forming and is working constantly to nourish your growing baby and rid waste. Your baby now weighs 320grams, which is only a percentage of the weight you may have gained.You should be able to feel flutters, some movement of the baby. ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8631/19-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8631/19-weeks/ Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:04:08 -0700 mcm Toliet training was so stressful for me when my big kids were toddlers. Argh!...the memories. It took months for both of them. When my youngest was about 18months I started having him nappy free for half days. I had read about elimination communication but couldn't see any signals that he needed to go when he did go. I feared he ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8582/Toilet-Learning-the-relaxed-approach-with-my-youngest-son/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8582/Toilet-Learning-the-relaxed-approach-with-my-youngest-son/ Thu, 10 Apr 2008 00:26:27 -0700 mcm The placenta is in its final stages of development and is almost fully formed. This is a life support for your baby, providing nutrients and also processing waste for Mother to dispose of. The placenta developed from the egg where baby comes from and continues to grow with baby. Through the blood vessels of the umbilical cord the placenta provides ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8581/18-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8581/18-weeks/ Wed, 09 Apr 2008 23:45:44 -0700 mcm  The bones of your baby are now becoming more noticeable and harder. The palate of baby's mouth is completely formed and the enamel on their teeth is forming. Still tiny,  baby is growing very fast. Now at around 14cm long from crown of the head to bottom and weighing  250 grams.Meconium begins to form in the baby's bowels. Meconium is ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8580/17-weeks/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8580/17-weeks/ Wed, 09 Apr 2008 23:23:05 -0700 mcm I am of the belief that pornography is wrong and that nothing good can come from or of it. So what can I teach my kids about it? I found an interesting article in a parenting magazine  (Kindred Sep - Nov 2007) about this very issue.There is also a link to the articles below. I will try to summarise what ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8022/Teaching-teens-about-porn/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8022/Teaching-teens-about-porn/ Thu, 06 Dec 2007 17:02:31 -0800 mcm Attention seeking behaviour is very common. Children may display certain forms of behaviour in an attempt to get your attention. This includes eating problems, showing off, constant interruptions, whinging and tantrums. I have seen this in each of my kids when they may be just after my attention. Also they may try to vy for my attention. The other night ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8019/Attention-seeking-behaviour/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/8019/Attention-seeking-behaviour/ Thu, 06 Dec 2007 13:49:20 -0800 mcm Not much is spoken about miscarriage. Medical practioners know very little and research hasn't been that helpful. Miscarriage and the meaning why women miscarry is largely a mystery. There is a great thorough article on miscarriage already on minti so I just wanted to talk about the feelings I went through personally and what you may expect if you happen ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/7823/Miscarriage/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/7823/Miscarriage/ Fri, 09 Nov 2007 19:16:11 -0800 mcm Re: Cloth nappy helpAsked by RachallQuestion:All you cloth nappy lovers and users, can you tell me how you started collecting your stash? Did you get the nappies one-at-a-time or did you go out and buy a whole heap of different kinds and brabds? Also did you buy them brand new or second hand first? I am wanting to actually start ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/7388/Buying-cloth-nappies-in-Australia/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/7388/Buying-cloth-nappies-in-Australia/ Fri, 07 Sep 2007 18:30:21 -0700 mcm Pocket nappies are basically that. A pocket in which you place something absorbent. These could include terry towelling, hemp, bamboo, organic cotton or microfibre.I have a few pocket nappies but I am not fond of them as I don't enjoy stuffing them. Others find that relaxing and prefer the ease of pockets. They can be convenient once stuffed as they ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/6271/My-experiences-with-pocket-nappies/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/6271/My-experiences-with-pocket-nappies/ Sat, 09 Jun 2007 05:09:29 -0700 mcm Is vaccinating neccessary?In Australia we have an immunisation schedule. Its  free and its expected that you keep your child up to date.I never had an issue with having my first child immunised. We had a wonderful maternal nurse who made sure she was up to date. My girl didn't like having needles and still has bad memories of needles. That ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/6233/Delayed-vaxxing-Our-story/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/6233/Delayed-vaxxing-Our-story/ Mon, 11 Jun 2007 19:42:20 -0700 mcm We have been using modern cloth nappies (diapers) for 10mths.We started out using traditional cloth - 8 coloured terry flats. I then invested in a few different fitted nappies. These are quite expensive but considering you can reuse it many times and even onsell it when finished, they work out much cheaper than disposables over time.They are made from various ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5790/Our-experience-using-modern-cloth-fitted-cloth/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5790/Our-experience-using-modern-cloth-fitted-cloth/ Fri, 25 May 2007 06:31:03 -0700 mcm What are flat nappies? This usually refers to terry cloth nappies( diapers) or flannelette nappies. They are folded to fit baby. I used terry cloth on my first child when she was  a newborn. It lasted 3 weeks. Why? I am amazed that I lasted that long. It was hard work. The folding and then soaking and hanging on the ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5787/My-experiences-using-flat-nappies/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5787/My-experiences-using-flat-nappies/ Fri, 25 May 2007 06:06:10 -0700 mcm I have written a few articles on minti about cloth nappies (diapers) and how they work. There seems to be a cloth v disposable debate. How about no nappy?When I was researching the idea of using modern cloth on my 8mth old son, I came across some very interesting information on the idea of not using nappies at all or ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5610/Being-nappydiaper-free-/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5610/Being-nappydiaper-free-/ Mon, 23 Apr 2007 07:32:46 -0700 mcm My husband and I have always loved travelling in the car. A couple of months after we were married we travelled the Nullabor ( a very long stretch of road in Australia). I was in the early weeks of pregnancy with our first child. Ahh the morning sickness...We like to take our kids places and our favourite past time together ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5609/Traveling-in-the-car-with-children/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5609/Traveling-in-the-car-with-children/ Thu, 19 Apr 2007 04:33:21 -0700 mcm I have three children. My first child was pushed out quite quickly and rather abruptly in 13 minutes leaving me relieved, though with a second degree tear. I was stitched up and this after a drug free labour drove me to the gas. It was agony for me.I was in fear with my second child. I was so scared to ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5426/Breathing-rather-than-pushing/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5426/Breathing-rather-than-pushing/ Fri, 06 Apr 2007 04:10:10 -0700 mcm Lotus birth? Ever heard of it? I just found out about it and thought I would share what I have learnt.What is it? This is where after  a baby is born and instead of cutting the cord (umbilical cord attached to baby and placenta) it is left to fall off on its own accord - usually in 8 days. Why ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5422/Lotus-Birth/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5422/Lotus-Birth/ Fri, 06 Apr 2007 04:43:03 -0700 mcm Just a few seconds is all it takes for a pram to end up on the train tracks. So here is a few points to remember when travelling with young children on a train. Hold onto pram Park pram sideways parallel to tracks or edge Apply brakes when on train or platform Travel ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5141/Travelling-by-train-with-young-children/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/5141/Travelling-by-train-with-young-children/ Fri, 16 Mar 2007 23:49:49 -0700 mcm I was thinking of Tracey's blog about IDSR - I did something right - about the things we do great as parents. This is what I think is my strong point with my children. I am honest with them. If they ask a question and I answer truthfully. For example, if I don't know I may say, "Sorry I am ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4871/Would-I-lie-to-you-IDSR/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4871/Would-I-lie-to-you-IDSR/ Sun, 25 Feb 2007 14:50:41 -0800 mcm What is Family Home Evening?This is what is encouraged by our Church to encourage one night (Monday night is designated as the start to the working week and also tends to be less busy) a week for the family to gather and spend time together.It doesn't have to be related to Church or gospel topics either. Even making time to ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4817/Family-Home-Evening/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4817/Family-Home-Evening/ Wed, 21 Feb 2007 15:38:19 -0800 mcm Why use disposables (nappies or diapers)? Since discovering modern cloth I can think of only one reason. For convenience.  All you do is place under baby, wrap tabs around then chuck in bin after it is dirty or wet, after putting solids in toilet where they belong. It is like using plastic plates and cutlery instead of the real thing. ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4441/Why-use-disposables/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4441/Why-use-disposables/ Mon, 05 Feb 2007 23:27:32 -0800 mcm My daughter has been counting down the days, for the past fortnight, til she heads back to school.  This year she is in grade two. She loves the social aspect of school more than anything else. As much as she loves free time and hanging out with her brothers she really does thrive when she is with her friends.I personally ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4172/Preparing-to-go-back-to-school/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4172/Preparing-to-go-back-to-school/ Tue, 23 Jan 2007 06:46:24 -0800 mcm My big boy is almost 4 years old. In Victoria, Australia, the cut off birtday date to attend 4 year old kindergarten, is end April. My boy's birthday is 22nd April so he scrapes in by just over a week. I have been considering whether he is ready for Kinder. Physically, emotionally, mentally and socially all children are different. My ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4104/Preparing-for-kindergarten-pre-school/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4104/Preparing-for-kindergarten-pre-school/ Fri, 19 Jan 2007 03:48:54 -0800 mcm When I had my first child, I was led to believe that breastfeeding was to end at one. I think that its about the society norm. I was very insecure about my adequacy as a mother, especially first time mother. I kept co - sleeping a secret for a long time. even trying to avoid co - sleeping feeling I ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4034/Full-term-breastfeeding/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/4034/Full-term-breastfeeding/ Sat, 01 Nov 2008 17:46:03 -0700 mcm People seem to be more interested in making more environmental choices these days. And as a parent of a young one nappies (diapers) can be a great place to start. This isn't the main reason I decided to convert to cloth but it does make me think.It is a choice and I am so glad I found about modern cloth. ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3881/More-cloth-options-How-easy-is-cloth/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3881/More-cloth-options-How-easy-is-cloth/ Wed, 10 Jan 2007 18:31:45 -0800 mcm Water and sun safety is very important especially in Australia. 90% of Australians live within an hour of the beach. But there are some important things we need to remember to take (along with towels and change of clothes), sunscreen 30+ UV protective swimmers hats water to keep hydrated energy snacks ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3808/A-day-at-the-beach/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3808/A-day-at-the-beach/ Sun, 07 Jan 2007 02:40:40 -0800 mcm I would like my chldren to speak politely and pleasantly. My children - my two oldest - are chatterboxes! They love to talk as does their Dad. (I am the quiet one). I want them to think about the way they speak.My daughter had a sleep over the other night. She was very excited and said to me, "I have ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3807/The-way-to-speak/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3807/The-way-to-speak/ Sun, 07 Jan 2007 01:58:58 -0800 mcm My youngest child is 14months and hardly speaks. He says Dada, Mum mum and Lala and Na - na. He has a very limited vocabulary. My big kids were speaking more at this age especially my big boy. But this doesn't mean he doesn't communicate or understand. A good example of this is when we went out the other day. ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3604/Communication-and-young-children/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3604/Communication-and-young-children/ Sun, 31 Dec 2006 18:50:46 -0800 mcm I love getting newsletters from my daughter's school. They teach some great values to the children at school and I think it is wonderful that they share some of that with the families via the newsletter. The following points are from the latest newletter with my thoughts underneathInstructions for life Great lives and great achievements  involve great risk.It can ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3089/Instructions-for-life/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3089/Instructions-for-life/ Mon, 11 Dec 2006 20:02:09 -0800 mcm Earlier this year I had trouble getting my baby to drink much water. He would only drink from me and as mothers tend to do I was worrying. I worried that he wasn't getting enough hydration. I tried numerous bottles and teats. We found the perstilactic teat from Pigeon to be a favourite. Though I assume he liked the teat ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3072/When-my-baby-wouldnt-take-water/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/3072/When-my-baby-wouldnt-take-water/ Wed, 13 Dec 2006 22:11:31 -0800 mcm When I had my girl, in the first year I suffered from mastitus twice. The first time I didn't know what it was but read about mastitus feeling like influenza and I noticed a blocked milk duct.  The second time I knew and it was mild and cleared up quickly. I didn't suffer from mastitus at all with my oldest ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2980/Express-Yourself-My-experience-with-mastitus/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2980/Express-Yourself-My-experience-with-mastitus/ Thu, 07 Dec 2006 16:36:56 -0800 mcm I thought it was time I debunked some myths about using cloth. I think it is dangerous to soak nappies in a bucket of water. I also think it smells! It is also dangerous to me to think of the chemicals used to soak the nappies. I want to avoid chemicals as much as possible. So I dry pail. What is ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2901/What-is-dry-pailing/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2901/What-is-dry-pailing/ Mon, 04 Dec 2006 15:33:32 -0800 mcm Encouraging independance in our children is very important. It can be too easy to do everything for them. But for them to learn sometimes we need to take a step back and say "You try". I like to ask my children if they need help. So they know I am willing to help if they need it, yet I have ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2897/Encouraging-independance/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2897/Encouraging-independance/ Mon, 15 Jan 2007 22:14:13 -0800 mcm What will you need - Using clothIf you choose to use cloth you may be wondering what you will need. I think for a newborn a good idea is to get terry or flannelette flats or prefolds. As newborns babies tend to need more frequent changes these are a cheaper and more effective option. I would suggest 30-35 which should ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2225/What-you-will-need-Using-cloth/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2225/What-you-will-need-Using-cloth/ Sun, 29 Oct 2006 17:54:56 -0800 mcm I guess what I am really asking is "as someone who has tried different types of modern cloth -what are your favourite types? (nappies, covers, liners etc)-what are your favourite brands? -Is there anything you would not recommend? -What do I need to start with? -Knowing what you know now what would you buy starting out?I checked out the cloth ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2224/Using-cloth-Part-2/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2224/Using-cloth-Part-2/ Sun, 29 Oct 2006 02:27:05 -0800 mcm I have just heard about Modern Cloth nappies and was wondering if anyone could tell me the difference between these, disposables and normal cloth.Also, after people who have used these nappies.I have written a few articles on minti about modern cloth and also set up a cloth group. Always willing to talk cloth!Modern cloth refers to fitted cloth which can ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2223/Using-cloth/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/2223/Using-cloth/ Sun, 29 Oct 2006 01:41:45 -0800 mcm It can be quite stressful having to go shopping with a toddler who just wants to explore. You want to get things done and have a look at things, your child wants to see how far away they can get from you or just check out what the shops have to  offer eg. toysI think we were lucky with our ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1993/Shopping-with-toddlers/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1993/Shopping-with-toddlers/ Sun, 15 Oct 2006 19:33:37 -0700 mcm How much sleep should your child be getting each night? and how important is sleep? I was reading an article in a kids magazine and it caught my eye. Especially as sleep can be such an elusive thing, in the early months and years!How much sleep? Newborn   16.5 hours 12 months old  14 hours 2 years old  ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1600/Sleep/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1600/Sleep/ Sun, 24 Sep 2006 04:24:19 -0700 mcm Fruit and vegetables contribute to the health, growth and development of children. I think it is very important to encourage good eating habits from an early age. Establishing healthy and balanced eating habits at an early age is important for long term health.Why should we eat fruit and vegetables? They are a good source of carbohydrates and fibre and are ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1579/Why-eat-fruit-and-vegees/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1579/Why-eat-fruit-and-vegees/ Fri, 22 Sep 2006 17:55:42 -0700 mcm My girl was dry at night at 2 years of age. I feel as though she toilet trained backwards compared to what  I have read in books. She was dry at night first then she was doing #2s in the toilet by the time she was 2 1/2 years of age. I half jokingly said to my hubby that a ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1474/Experience-with-toilet-training-and-my-girl/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1474/Experience-with-toilet-training-and-my-girl/ Fri, 15 Sep 2006 04:20:58 -0700 mcm My boy has been unwell this past year in particular. He was diagnosed with asthma and he has been quite lethargic. I encouraged him from about 2 1/2 years of age to go to the toilet but he didn't seem keen. Then one day, about a fortnight ago, I said to him "No more Pull Ups" I felt that he ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1472/Experience-with-toilet-training-and-my-boy/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1472/Experience-with-toilet-training-and-my-boy/ Fri, 15 Sep 2006 03:57:48 -0700 mcm I think as mothers it is so easy to do everything from day one with the baby. At least for me, it happened that way. I thought it was just a given for me as mum to do it all - I was breastfeeding, changing nappies, settling day and night and all that comes with caring for our newborn daughter. ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1414/Involving-Daddy-in-care-of-the-children/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1414/Involving-Daddy-in-care-of-the-children/ Sun, 10 Sep 2006 18:10:04 -0700 mcm As I mentioned in the ideas for 'fruit in your child's day' article, it is recommended that we eat 2 fruit, 5 veg, so here is some ideas for eating enough vegetables in a day. I am vegetarian, so i have no trouble eating enough fruit and vegees but it can be difficult making sure the kids are eating enough. ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1330/Vegees-in-your-childs-day/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1330/Vegees-in-your-childs-day/ Fri, 01 Sep 2006 19:45:42 -0700 mcm It is recommended we should eat 5 veg, 2 fruit. Here are ideas for including fruit in your day.Breakfast add fruit to cereal or yogurt banana toast (if you can afford them) make pancakes and add grated apple and pear Make a fruit smoothie with strawberry, banana (again if you can afford it), with low fat ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1329/Fruit-in-your-childs-day/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1329/Fruit-in-your-childs-day/ Fri, 01 Sep 2006 19:47:55 -0700 mcm The best way to learn is to experience. Reading is great as it allows us to understand. There are great ways for us to learn every day. We develop an understanding when we connect with real life and exploring that. I thought, I could share some ways we can help our children in learning every day. Use public transport. ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1326/Opportunities-for-learning/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1326/Opportunities-for-learning/ Fri, 01 Sep 2006 18:44:40 -0700 mcm Reading is a fundamental start to learning and essential in life. It is one of the great pleasures of life, I am sure you would agree. No child is too young to join the Library. When I had my second child I was given a gift from the local public library. It was a gorgeous baby book about a baby ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1267/A-word-about-the-Library/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1267/A-word-about-the-Library/ Wed, 30 Aug 2006 02:58:31 -0700 mcm Nappy Options (Diapers)What will you need to put on your baby's bottom? I think you have a few options. Go into any supermarket and you will discover an aisle wall of nappies. These are disposable, meaning that they are thrown away after baby dirties them. These are the most costly yet convenient way. Modern cloth is another option. They work ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1264/Nappy-Options/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1264/Nappy-Options/ Wed, 06 Sep 2006 15:00:07 -0700 mcm Just speaking from my own experience I think it is important to prepare for baby. I mean buying for baby. What I did with my first child was buy things slowly. Every week we would buy something small for the baby- a blanket, bodysuit or bottle. By the time my daughter  arrived she had enough to get by. I couldn't ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1203/Preparing-for-baby-Buying-for-Baby/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1203/Preparing-for-baby-Buying-for-Baby/ Thu, 24 Aug 2006 20:48:30 -0700 mcm What do you want for your children? I think I speak for others as well, when I say we want the best for our children and we want them to be happy.It is now known that at birth, a child's brain is only 15% connected. This means that they only have basic brain functions that control their  eating, sleeping and ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1183/Happy-baby-Smart-baby/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1183/Happy-baby-Smart-baby/ Wed, 23 Aug 2006 17:31:23 -0700 mcm I think its important to be weary of overheating. When a baby is too hot, they can overheat. This has been linked to SIDS.Layering is a good idea, as you can take off a layer when a baby gets too warm. For this reason, I also recommend natural clothing made from wool and cotton. Fleece is an insulator and doesn't ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1115/Beware-of-overheating/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1115/Beware-of-overheating/ Fri, 18 Aug 2006 18:37:23 -0700 mcm To keep warm, a child may need to wear layers. Layering is the most effective way of keeping your child warm. In our house we have floorboards and no carpet so it can get very cold here. I truly believe natural fibres are best ie. wool and cotton. A good rule of thumb is if you are chilly, then baby ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1110/Layering-for-warmth/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1110/Layering-for-warmth/ Fri, 18 Aug 2006 18:25:10 -0700 mcm What is modern cloth? For those who have seen my blog will see I have now enough nappies for triplets! There seems to be some interest as well as confusion in modern cloth, so I thought I could write about what's what.A modern cloth nappy (also known as modern cloth diaper) can come in many different forms. The three main ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1109/What-is-modern-cloth/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1109/What-is-modern-cloth/ Thu, 28 Sep 2006 19:31:30 -0700 mcm An amusing checklist(author unknown)that I found and changed to suit my experience!Mess testSmear peanut butter or nutella on the walls and the couch. Toy testSpread toys such as small lego all over the house. When its dark try walking through without screaming as you may wake a sleeping child. Grocery store testTake a couple of goats to the supermarket. Pay ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1074/Are-you-ready-for-children/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1074/Are-you-ready-for-children/ Tue, 15 Aug 2006 17:26:47 -0700 mcm At 9 months most babies will be eating 3 meals a day plus having 3 milk feeds. This of course can differ and does vary. My baby is 9 1/2 mths and he still feeds quite frequently on the breast while having 3 hearty solid meals a day.  At every meal give one each of the following: a starchy ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1073/What-to-eat-Solids-9mths/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1073/What-to-eat-Solids-9mths/ Wed, 23 Aug 2006 18:48:52 -0700 mcm If your child is a fussy eater it can be stressful. I think its important to stay calm and not make dinner time a battle of wills. Set a good example - Eat and enjoy healthy foods Remember young children have small stomachs Children like routine - make meal times regular and serve familiar dishes ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1072/Fussy-Eaters/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1072/Fussy-Eaters/ Mon, 14 Aug 2006 23:55:30 -0700 mcm What is a fever? It is an abnormally high temperature and is a good sign that the body is working. It is the body's own natural way of healing and attempting to fight  many differing ailments. Mild fevers only need a watchful eye. It is interesting to note that the heat of the fever causes invaders not to thrive. Fever ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1071/Fever-the-natural-fighter/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1071/Fever-the-natural-fighter/ Tue, 15 Aug 2006 15:41:36 -0700 mcm What should we have in the bathroom cabinet? I think when we have kids its less make up and pretty perfumes and more medicines etc for the kids.I thought I could share what we have in ours. This has been sufficient for our family, though there is probably more i should have, just in case. Vicks Vaporub Panadol ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1070/What-is-in-the-bathroom-cabinet/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1070/What-is-in-the-bathroom-cabinet/ Mon, 14 Aug 2006 23:23:53 -0700 mcm I wanted to share the conversation I had with my daughter.My girl said to me "Can I go to the park all by myself?" I tried to explain to her that she is too young, to which she replied, "I am a big girl". Its not that I don't trust her, its that i can't trust anyone else. I thought ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1068/Stranger-Danger/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1068/Stranger-Danger/ Mon, 14 Aug 2006 22:56:49 -0700 mcm I have always had a problem with keeping the blanket on my baby when he is in the pram. I had this same problem with all my babies. I discovered that if i folded the blanket in half diagnonally so it forms a triangle shape, I can tuck the long ends behind his back or below his bottom. Then there ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1013/Blanket-troubles-tip/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1013/Blanket-troubles-tip/ Fri, 11 Aug 2006 20:16:49 -0700 mcm I know how hard it is to keep socks and even shoes on a young child. When my oldest boy was a baby I discovered Robeez shoes. They are made from soft leather in Canada and are like slippers. Then I had my youngest son and found an even better shoe. These are TipToeyJoey shoes made from soft leather in ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1012/TipToeyJoey/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/1012/TipToeyJoey/ Fri, 11 Aug 2006 19:59:43 -0700 mcm I think its important that we as mothers, in particular, that we remember who we are - you know - before we became mothers. My main priority is my children and my family. But I can see we need a balance also. This means taking time to do things for ourselves as well as looking after ourselves. Its not selfish ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/978/Respecting-oneself-mother-or-not/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/978/Respecting-oneself-mother-or-not/ Wed, 09 Aug 2006 19:09:34 -0700 mcm Its when I walk my 6 year old daughter to school, that I feel closer to her. I can feel her growing up and I can sense her capabilities. Its almost as though she is more mature on the 15 minute walk to her school than at any other time. She talks incessantly about school - the activities, the teachers ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/939/Walking-to-school/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/939/Walking-to-school/ Mon, 07 Aug 2006 20:04:32 -0700 mcm I didn't enjoy my first pregnancy. I felt unwell and suffered from severe nausea and morning sickness. I felt out of control. I think this had an effect on me in a physical sense as well as in other ways. After I gave birth I felt run down and frequently felt tired and unwell generally causing  viruses. I knew it ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/923/Post-natal-illness-my-experience-with-Graves-Disease/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/923/Post-natal-illness-my-experience-with-Graves-Disease/ Tue, 28 Oct 2008 20:18:03 -0700 mcm In my reserarch on modern coth nappies I have been amazed at what I have been missing out on using disposables. I used terry towelling nappies when my daughter was born and that lasted 3 weeks. Our lifestyle of going out made it impractical to use cloth, and it was time consuming -soaking, washing, drying and folding. Modern Coth is ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/895/Considering-MCN-modern-cloth-nappies/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/895/Considering-MCN-modern-cloth-nappies/ Fri, 04 Aug 2006 19:03:56 -0700 mcm Thinking about being an organic mummy? I am! Whether you are a mother or not, I think there are many benefits to choosing organic products.Here are some facts to think about organics: The term "organic' usually refers to  growing or processing without chemicals and pesticides It is great and even ideal for babies to use organic as they ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/876/Organic-facts/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/876/Organic-facts/ Thu, 03 Aug 2006 17:55:10 -0700 mcm Young babies are not known for rolling in the mud, so they don't need a daily bath. When you do bathe them it is best to use gentle soap if neccessary.. Look for poducts that don't produce much foam and contain a short simple list of ingredients. Essential oil and fragrance free is suggested. Sodium lauryl and laureth may have ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/875/Bathing-what-should-I-avoid/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/875/Bathing-what-should-I-avoid/ Thu, 03 Aug 2006 17:25:24 -0700 mcm Safety in the home is very important especially once your little one starts to become mobile. My youngest is now 9mths and crawls from the loungeroom to the kitchen and he is quick as lightning.It is at this age that I find babies like to pick up tiny things off the floor and mouth them. For this reason I have ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/863/Safety-in-the-home-choking-hazards/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/863/Safety-in-the-home-choking-hazards/ Thu, 10 Aug 2006 18:29:18 -0700 mcm Babies are born with 20 milk teeth. You may not see any of them at birth but they are under the gum waiting to cut through. At about 6 months the first usually makes its appearance. One of the signs a baby is teething is the chewing of fingers. Teething rings or toys can help to relieve the pain. Driibling ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/862/Looking-after-teeth/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/862/Looking-after-teeth/ Fri, 04 Aug 2006 19:09:06 -0700 mcm I am vegetarian and I have trouble getting enough calcium, protein and iron in my diet. Rather than taking numerous tablets I would like to eat! Here are some foods that I think help my iron levels in my experience: iron fortified cereals, foods and drinks sesame seeds leafy vegetables such as spinach ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/861/How-to-get-enough-iron-Tips/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/861/How-to-get-enough-iron-Tips/ Mon, 07 Aug 2006 01:23:02 -0700 mcm One of the most exciting milestones is watching your child take thir first steps.  The human foot is complicated and has 26 bones. Baby's feet have no fully formed bones - they are made up of soft  and flexible cartilage but change very quickly especially in the first five years. What you put on your child's feet matters. Allowing your child ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/858/Footwear/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/858/Footwear/ Thu, 03 Aug 2006 17:06:49 -0700 mcm Why does a child bite? Most commonly a child bites as an experiment ie. to see what will happen, or if they are frustrated, tired or to get attention. Biting during a breastfeed is a different situation though. My baby has 4 teeth - 2 up the top and 2 down the bottom. When my eldest (my girl) reached this stage ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/854/Breastfeeding-when-baby-bites/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/854/Breastfeeding-when-baby-bites/ Wed, 02 Aug 2006 18:11:48 -0700 mcm Kids take their cue from you as a parent. So how you respond to their school reports will inevitably have an effect on the attitude of your child. The challenge is to focus on your child's strengths rather than just on areas that need improving. Be sure to take into account the effort your child has put into their work ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/833/School-expectations-and-goals-for-learning/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/833/School-expectations-and-goals-for-learning/ Tue, 01 Aug 2006 20:06:40 -0700 mcm Trust is essential in effective family communication. It allows parents and kids to talk openly about issues that are of utmost importance. This communication doesn't necessarily mean everyone will agree. However it does give each family member the opportunity to speak freely witthout blame or judgement. In strong families, the members are good listeners. They are more likely to listen to ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/832/Speaking-to-your-kids-so-they-will-listen/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/832/Speaking-to-your-kids-so-they-will-listen/ Tue, 01 Aug 2006 00:27:22 -0700 mcm It is important to consider what your children eat. What we send in their lunch boxes for school matters. I used to worry my girl would look depraved for not having the latest snack food. But now I see she is happy to have a simple sandwich, fruit and a juice (plus water in summer) and ccassionally she may have ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/831/Lunch-boxes-the-content-thereof/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/831/Lunch-boxes-the-content-thereof/ Tue, 01 Aug 2006 01:10:10 -0700 mcm Some babies, particularly in families with a history of allergies such as hayfever and asthma, develop infantile eczema. They may then go on to develop asthma and other chest problems. My son has eczema. He developed a rash at one year of age. He is now 3 and a half. For the past 2 and a half years we have ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/830/How-we-deal-with-childhood-eczema/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/830/How-we-deal-with-childhood-eczema/ Tue, 01 Aug 2006 18:48:06 -0700 mcm From blocks to bicycles, every toy has something to teach a child. Though, some toys represent better play value than others. A simple home made toy often has more appeal to a young child than a much more expensive sophisticated toy.Children learn about the world around them through experience and practice. A baby will mouth something to feel its texture, ... http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/813/What-about-toys/ http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/813/What-about-toys/ Tue, 01 Aug 2006 17:55:01 -0700