Hi everyone im 20 weeks pregnant today and tomorrow my dad,boyfriend and i are going to the scan together.Is that weird to have your dad there ??.He has nevre been around for any of my other births as iv'e lived elsewhere finally we are living near each other and i want him to be there for it all.ive been really well i even surprise my dictor sometimes.She is a great doctor.I have a cupboard full of baby clothes ,people are giving me things and lending me some wonderful things like cots and change tables.Im very lucky to have friends and neighbours that love me like they do.I have just read a wonderful book called "MISCONCEPTIONS" by Naomi Wolf. The book is based on her pregnancy and many other peoples too and her findings on different aspects of the medical world concerned with pregnancy and childbirth.It is all around the American Medical world but i find it evry eye opening indeed.Giving facts and falsehoods we all are told.Good myths and bad and everything in between.But i really think anyone would enjoy it look out for it at the library. Im totally loving the Belly Belt...what a great little thing im wearing it all the time and cant believe i ever got away without it with all the other pregnancies.Been a lovely week although ive got a few sick kids.Ha anyone got any info on Juvenille Arthritis as my daughter has been found to have it and im a bit concerned on how you deal with it. Anyway im ot of here gotta get going,take care Minti peoples bye.