It was my oldest boy birthday yesterday and I felt on top of the world!  But my husband ruined it cause he came over to visit my boy and unfortunately the fence at the back of my house was going up which I didn't know about and because my husband didn't like it he caused trouble by calling the police to came over on James birthday!  James was in tears over it!  Anyways my hb nearly got an temporary restraining order and nearly got arrested over my deprivation of liberty!  I just think that he is digging an bigger hole for himself!  Anyways after that he managed to calm down and we had an really nice evening after that!  I lead an very stressful life but managing to look after myself all at the same time!