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09
Jul
2007

Families of Sex Offenders, my latest venture.

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Wow its been a busy few weeks at my place. And so so soooo productive. Along with the clowning job Ive also become an administrator on a site called "Families of Sex Offenders".

A very very close friend of mine has been working her butt off fighting for the rights of families of sex offenders, trying to get more support services in place. What Australian authorities fail to realise is that with the incaceration of offenders, all their friends and families are often overlooked in the process, and noone knows how to deal with them. Victims and offenders are usually overwhelmed with support services trying to make life easier, but what happens to the offender's mum or dad, husband or wife, or their children or best friends? One minute they're there, and the next minute they're behind bars. And the people they have left behind are just supposed to move on with their lives and act as if nothing has happened?

Now I'm in no way trying to put offenders up on a pedestal, but I do agree that something needs to be done. This is where my friend comes in.

She has recently been run off her feet with media interviews (if interested ask me to email you the audio clip of an interview on ABC radio's Life Matters), and meetings with various organisations to get FOSO up and running.

If you or someone you know has been affected by this, please head to FOSO and register with the online forum and let some of your pain and suffering out by speaking to some other members who have been through the same process. It is a free, non-profit website, which has only just begun, but believe me the services it is offering are unbelievable.

Or, if you think you can help in some way, either contact myself directly, or head to FOSO and contact one of the administrators and say you heard about it on Minti and Simone sent you.

If you'd like more information please just ask Im only a click away. This is something Im extremely excited about! Lol

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Arna
July 2007 | Arna
Re: Families of Sex Offenders, my latest venture.
I have a very different view on this for you, as a victim of gang rape.

Yes, I was raped, and yes I went through it all.  The one person I told ( a student counselor) turned it around and made me the criminal.  I was mortified to have people laugh at me and say that I was easy because I slept with 7 guys at once.  Because of this I never reported it.

I never harboured feelings of hate or revenge against the offenders, and I managed to deal with it on my own.  Months after it happened, I heard that 1 guy was dead ( commited suicide) apparently from guilt and that another was really sorry and wanted to say so.  I gave him the opportunity and it turns out that he believed that I was actually being paid for it and it wasn't until later he was told otherwise.

So, at least 2 of them were victims too.  I told him that I was sorry for what he had been through and that if he was genuinely sorry that was all that mattered to me.

Having said all that, I do believe the families of offenders ( not just sex offenders either) need help and support, and having just come through the courts with someone close, I know that there is no support for those affected.

I was a victim but so are many people, more than just the ones who are wronged.

Thanks for this Blog.

Arna


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