kind of the same
My girls used to be the same way, kind of, when it came to carrying a toy into the car and wanting to take it down when we went into gymboree, OR carrying a toy while they ate, etc. What worked for me was that I would tell them that they need their hands to climb or swing, eat, etc. If they threw fits, I'd let them cry and tell them if they continue we will not be able to color for a while anymore or I'd put the toy in time out. I also started to use the countdown like you, but I'd actually put the microwave timer on or if we're out, I'd do the timer on my cellular phone. They got used to it, I'd let them know that we have 5 minutes to finish coloring & when it would sound, they'd literally DROP everything to go on to the next thing...
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