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May

Winnie's Rambling Blog.

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Well the Summer has been in her full glory this week, and though it will go hide in favour of rain and cloud again tomorrow, we have really enjoyed the warmth in the old bones. Ruth had her first fall out of a tree last night, thankfully nothing more than a bruised hip and her pride. Will it discourage her from sitting in trees? No not one bit, half an hour later she is back up in the old oak singing imaginary songs to the birds. People having an evening walk on the common were quite amused at the site of her.

Caty on the other hand is now convinced that female humans should stay firmly on terra firma and that tree climbing is not a sensible occupation for little girls, so she proceeded to lecture her big Sister on the danger. When Daddy asked if it was o.k for him to climb trees, she said, "it alright cause you a boy",  Hmm dont think she has any idea of emancipation of the sexes.LOL.

Ruth is really coming on well at school since they implemented the new SEN programme for her, she now has extra one to one with all subjects and not just literacy, this has really boosted her confidence and she is interacting more and more in class situations. The school has implemented an extra dimention by involving all the children in understanding why there is extra time for some children, and why that is necessary. The SEN children have been encouraged to talk about their difficulties and how life at school is a little harder to cope with at times. This has helped all the children to understand each other more and acts of help and kindness have been more forth coming with each other. So far Ruth has talked to three year groups about her Autistic issues, young Ben about his Downs Syndrome and Lizbeth about her Cerebral Palsy, long may this openess continue.

My Dad is still with us and looks to be fighting the inevitable, he is not ready to go, but is very tired and frail. Trying to fight two cancers is a lot, but he is not giving in just yet. The paliative care team are doing a super job in trying to keep him pain free, which is a blessing and as much as we can hope for at this moment in time. He is so unaware of his illness that he just thinks it is all rather boring, to have this irritating pain. The viral dimencia is spairing him any anguish, thankfully.

Well I suppose I have to go get domestic, or the clothes will be upping stiches and starting a revolution, the dust will be shouting about clean working enviroments, and the freezer will be reporting me for starving it. LOL.

Take care of you all. Luv Winnie.xxxx

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emmie
May 14th | emmie
Re: Winnie's Rambling Blog.

Hi Winnie Ramble.

Yes its been beautiful hasntit shasme it rained today though and it has been thunder and lightening i been hiding from it lol it scares me . What a little dumpling ruth is that girl has no  fear i can just picture her perched onthe branches of an oak tree singing to the birds such a seetie she is.

Caty does make me laugh with the stuff she comes out with such a little character i thought she would have said daddy could climb a tree cos hes big not cos he a boy funny little thing.

Im glad to hear the school have muscled to help children like ruth who do have problems and they can openly taalk about this . Its great to hear dshe is coming along well with it i hope it continues so and hopefully soon we wont see a more confident child i dsure hope so hun.

Your dad is 1 incredibly strong man he has been fighting for so long. It does make me laugh his attitude to it all. He gets real bad then all of a sudden he is coming through leaps and bounds he isa juast amazing.

When you have finnished being domestic in your own home maybe you could come here and do mine i have so much to do its slowly getting done butthat is slowly. LOL

Luv Emz xxxx



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nell18-3
May 14th | nell18-3
Re: Winnie's Rambling Blog.

Is it really turning bad again tomorrow ??????

Thats so miserable, is that our summer again

Glad to hear you dad is still with you, what a great fighting spirit he has

xxx



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      MrsSanders
May 14th | MrsSanders
Re: Winnie's Rambling Blog.

Hi Helen, yep they are saying rain for tomorrow and the weekend , grrr hope they have it wrong. This warm spell has been fantastic, not yet ready to say goodbye to it.LOL.

Luv Winnie.xxxx



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Domestic-warrior
May 14th | Domestic-warrior
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It's really awesome they give your little girl the extra she needs at school.  Can i ask does she know she is Autistic?  I guess i assumed it would be something that the person who has it wouldn't understand.  Sorry don't know too much about it, although a friends friend has two Autistic children, girl and a boy but i don't see them much.....i think unless you knew them well they seemed normal. 

Your Dad is certainly a trooper, i think it is a good thing that he doesn't know what is happening.....it would be hard to deal with.  Maybe that is why he has hung on so long, if he knew perhaps the worry of it would be too much.



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      MrsSanders
May 14th | MrsSanders
Re: Winnie's Rambling Blog.

Yes Ruth is aware she has Autism, she is aware there are differences in how she sees things compared to others, what she cannot understand is how others see things. She has a very determind outlook and cant always understand why it does not fit with everyone else. Ruth is very logical, and things that can seem black and white to her, can be so complex for the non autistic.

Ruth can read some very big words like "excruciating", but cant make out the word "and". Therefore she can loose the context, and that is what life is like too for her. She does not alway get the context as we would. Does this make sense or am I just rambling.LOL

As for Dad, you could be onto something there, yep I think you got it in one.

Luv Winnie.xxxx



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           Domestic-warrior
May 14th | Domestic-warrior
Re: Winnie's Rambling Blog.

No, no not rambling i think it get it....hard for us to understand but i think if you look at things in a fundamental way it could be like that.  Some things can be very straight forward until we start 'thinking' about them and confusing ourselves....maybe she doesn't do this?



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