I think that it is a good idea to write the article if you are up for it. I believe you are right and it will help you and it will hopefully also help others.
Thinking of you and your girls and baby in heaven.

Maybe writing the article is one way to help you find your way forward..... good luck.

it's a berevement - just like losing anyone else. Just because you didnt get a chance to see them with your own eyes, doesnt mean you wont miss them. Your baby was real. From what I understand about berevement, you dont "get over" losing someone, you just get used to living with the pain of loss. Allowing yourself to grieve, allowing yourself to remember, is an important part of a healthy grieving process. 3 years is NOT a long time in the grieving process - my MIL can still disolve into tears in the middle of reading a kids book to her grand daughter because it reminds her of her mum who she lost 3 years ago. When I wrote up my own miscarriage story I was shaking with the memory of it, and like you I've gone on to carry a healthy baby to term. So, take your time, pace yourself, let yourself cry, and Im sure your Article, when you can finish it, will be a real comfort to others.

hello

i must say you are very brave to write it and well done and no matter what it will never leave you the misscarriage . i cant wait to read your story  and take time to write it

love belxx

Dear Lisa, sweetie it doesn't matter if it's 3 years or 30 years, the loss of a part of you ( which is what happened), is something that will be emotional for you. I so feel for you, my friend.

But your doing well, at least your talking about it, which is good and you have plenty of friends to help you through the bad times. I believe that most of us here on minti have had something awful happen to us, in our lives & minti has given us the opportunity, when we are ready ( & only when we are ready)....to write about our experiences & start the healing process. So take your time in writing your article and i'm sure once you have done it....you will feel like a load has been lifted from your shoulders.....and in turn, you will help other Mum's out there.

Sending hugs  & a angel to help you through this emotional time Janice xxxxxx

You need to do what is best for you, and if it helps by writing down your thoughts and giving advice, do it... Yes its a sad Topic, but if it can help just one person, that is great..

All the best finishing your article...

xxx cazza

you're not depressing me at all, it is a good thing for you to talk about it :)

and i think it's normal to feel as though it were yesterday...
you can continue to care for as long as you like, you are entitled to...
it just shows that you are a great person, as it had a big effect on you...

and i am truly sorry for your loss...
but i am glad that you got a miracle after with another child :)

although i have not experienced what you feel, i think it's great that you have picked yourself up and am beautiful enough to share your story with others...

remember, if you continue to shed any more tears while you're writing, remember that all us minti members here are here to wipe those tears away !

good luck with the article !

all my love,
thuy xox