Hi sweet,

I think you need you hang here with your friends and a support network, to help you get through this rough time.

I missed whatever your talking....but i would say it is all water under a bridge now.

If you ever want to just talk to me, sweetie one on one....please just email anytime.

Higs Janice

I didn't see the blog or comment that you speak of but if it is upsetting you maybe you can mail Danni and tell her how you feel.  Hopefully she will understand, and perhaps she jumped to conclusions and you can clear it up.

Around Minti i think there are certain subjects which are like religion and politics...better left alone!

Hope you can work it out

Lisa darling do what is best for you at that moment in time. If you want to come on then we will all be here, and if you arent up for it, then we will be here when you get back.

Hugs to you Lisa.

Hi there...

if you need to chat anytime im here, just minti mail your addy to me,,...

Take care

xxx cazza

Hi, I didnt mean to upset you even more and im sorry if i have..Im just so sick of all the talk about rankings,only becuase there are some people who think its a race or think it means there better and i dont like that.Yes i have to learn to bite my tongue but when i see the same activity about ranking it does my head in, its only a number and is only calculated by the amout of time you spend on Minti..So really the more maount of time you sit on your computer thats how you get up in rank!! ARNA-I have spelling mistakes because i type to fast without looking.

Hiding away from your support networks will make things worse for you.  I'm sure that Dannii didn't mean anything by what she said.  We are all tired and one spelling error can change the whole context of what we are reading, says she making 10 in a row!!!!

I'm sorry you are riding the emotional rollercoaster.  Wish I could be there for you.

Hi honey,

PLEASE DO NOT worry about what others think!! . . . You are a lovely person and are well respected here on Minti . .   This is a time in your life when you need the support and friendship of ALL your friends etc, so I urge to to hang around . . Please sweetie keep your head up and know that we are ALL here for you . .

Hugs Kellz

Hey Lisa.

Please dont take a timeout  dont knowwhat has happened in your last blog but im sure dannii17 didnt mean to upset you.I think with this anniversary coming up you are going to need the support it must be so hard for you . Keep your chin up

Thinking  of you

Luv Emz xxx

Awe hun, I just read your previous blog and it is a nice one, and a lifting one. Please dont back off, some people dont get a lift out of the ranking, some dont bother with it and some of us enjoy it in the spirit it was meant. I do understand what you are going through, the loss can be very hard to take at times, and esspecially as you are trying to write and share with us your experience. I for one want to read your article, as I too have lost little ones. In reading your blog, I can see that you were having a light moment, an uplifting experience from the ranking which is important when we are so low. That is after all the nature of minti, to find the fun bits. Please dont let others lows, bring you too far down. We all have different views on ranking and I for one am supporting you on reaching 100. Now please dry your tears, have a big cyber hug from me, and please join us here for some support and a laugh. You gave me one yesterday, when you popped that little graphic, of the cool girl typing, infact it spurred me on to go to my Yoga class today, so you see, what you do, can affect some of us in a very positive way.

Love, Winnie.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hey Lisa

Draw support from those that know you need it

I really don't think anyone meant any offence, I didn't see what you said but don't take to heart a comment that wasn't meant with malice. We all say things flippantly but I don't think Dannii would deliberately hurt you and would not like to think she had

Anniversaries are hard enough, without cutting yourself off from those that can help you

Please don't take a time out when you need us

Minti mail me private if you want, but I genuinely would love to help you through this

xxx

oh i'm sorry to hear. I think congratulations to you for making the positive contribution to the site to reach a high rank. Don't worry about what other people say. I know your obviously upset at this moment but I am sure there are a lot of friends on here that will support you through your tough time.