i think it's terrible that anybody would make you feel like that !

i may not know you personally, but you know what i see when i see your minti page ?
i see a mature woman who adores her child and adores children in general...
i see someone who is independent and doesn't need anybody else to make herself happy...

you know the way i look at it ?
when somebody puts you down, don't even bother to get upset.. just pity them for not having the respect that you have and the compassion you have not to hurt others...

and trust me, i know how you feel, even with a fiance and clearly a great family relationship, people look at me like i'm disgusting and like i couldn't possibly know what's im doing !
my mother was 17 when she got married.. then fell pregnant at 18... and now she has us 4 kids ! if it was ok for my mum to be pregnant at 18, then why was it not for me ?
it annoys me that the whole "you're not married" thing is so important... if you're happy, then that's all that matters !
people shouldn't judge others when they have NO idea what happens at home or what you're like as a person... for all they know, you're secretly 80 years old inside and like playing bingo ! (haha j/k, no offense to anybody out there, theres nothing wrong with bingo, i like it too ! haha)

during high school i could never get close  to people because they weren't on the same "maturity level" as me... trust me, they were great people, but it just wasn't enough for me...
and so my point is, people mature at different ages, some people will always be 20 years older than their biological age, so you should never judge because you don't know them !

i just want to say.. i respect you completely and what you're doing with your life...
i'm glad everything has worked out for you and to all those people that want to judge you, let karma get the best of them...
i believe that if you're a good person, good things happen... so do whatever you're doing and just forget what those ignorant people tell you :)

sorry for the ramble.. i hope i made you feel better :) hahaha

all my love,
thuy xox

Hi Lauren, when they told you that it was disgusting, what were they referring to?  The site, your page, your previous blog about being pregnant?  It just doesn't make any sense to me that someone would say that about what you have posted here.

ignore them - they are obviously jealous

i notice that you have deleted past blog posts, if it was a reaction to their comments, i would suggest you undelete them. be proud :)

I don't understand what is so disgusting either.  Just ignore them!

What?  Were they referring to your Minti page?  Um, i dont see anything disgusting in any of it....tell them to go take a Flying F*** and get a life!!

hey,

Dont worry what people have to say,at the end of the day they dont know you, all tho know about you is whats on your homepage..You sound like a great mum and being single just shows how strong you are,there aint many 19 yr olds that could do what your doing.Your childrens hearts are beating and thats because of you.Dont worry about ppl like that,they have no life and must be jelous they couldnt do what your doing at 19.

Take care, Dannii xxo

BIG HUGS some poeple jsut don't think. Hey, I know some people who are 35 and have kids and shouldn't KWIM....

I can't believe that somebody told you your page was disgusting! If they don't like it then don't read it! You are a very capable mother & who cares how old you are or if you have a partner - it's nobody's business but yours! If it was someone from minti please tell admin - send a copy of the email or whatever - and let them deal with this person!

Teshia xxoo

heya Lauren, Text mer or call, are you ok??  you know where i am sweetie!!!!

what do they classify as to young? u can be young in age but more mature than a 30 yo.

its not disgusting.

was it this site that it happened on if so contact admin and let them no who did this and they can give them a warning or something.

good luck and congratualtions on the baby

That is so terrible. Don't listen to what they've said. Good on you for being a young mum. so was i. I was a teen when i was pregnant. 16 i was when my first one popped out. My kids have turned out alright.

Welcome back, haven't seen you around for ages.

Ignore the ones who are telling you it is disgusting. There is nothing wrong with it.

Congrats on the pregnancy! Hope all goes well.

Some people are just plain nasty and best to be ignored. Anyway, like they are perfect, no one is!

TELL whomever that thought your page or what ever you wrote offended them to pull their heads in...

Dont ever feel that u have to explain your self to others, especially to people on a net page,. as some aint as true to them selves as they are if they were in front of you..

All ways be your self, be happy for what your dreams are, and just be the best mum u can be..

xxx cazza

I cant believe that anyone would say that! Pregnancy is a beautiful thing and you sound like a very caring and devoted Mum. I hope you dont experience any more of that sort of nastiness.

Good luck with your pregnancy.

Cass xx

well congrats on having another baby and so what if you are solo . there are plenty of mothers out ther who are single and do a better job then some with partners . all the best with this pregancey .

love belxx