I was just going through my emails, and noticed something I missed yesterday regarding the email from the boys dad.
He sent a copy to my oldest son!
In itself, its no big deal, I knew my oldest would hear about it.
But I was married to him for 24 years, I know all his tricks and mind games, He exactly knew what he was doing by putting on the email cc Chris Young
Strangely I feel oddly saddened but at the same relieved by this discovery
1) Sad - I was prepared to consider he was doing the best thing finally for the boys
2) Relieved - I know I was right to not trust him and believe he had changed I really hoped that he wanted to do the right thing by his relationship with his younger sons, but it seems that once again, the only relationship he loves is the one with my oldest. He was once heard to say at work, even though we had all four children at the time, that the only thing in life he was proud of was his oldest son! He must still believe that.
Oh well. His loss LOL
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