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Now it makes sense !!!

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I was just going through my emails, and noticed something I missed yesterday regarding the email from the boys dad.

He sent a copy to my oldest son!

In itself, its no big deal, I knew my oldest would hear about it.

But I was married to him for 24 years, I know all his tricks and mind games, He exactly knew what he was doing by putting on the email cc Chris Young

Strangely I feel oddly saddened but at the same relieved by this discovery

1) Sad - I was prepared to consider he was doing the best thing finally for the boys

2) Relieved - I know I was right to not trust him and believe he had changed

I really hoped that he wanted to do the right thing by his relationship with his younger sons, but it seems that once again, the only relationship he loves is the one with my oldest. He was once heard to say at work, even though we had all four children at the time, that the only thing in life he was proud of was his oldest son! He must still believe that.

Oh well. His loss LOL

 

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Marglr
July 5th | Marglr
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

Eyes opened wide, good for you, I was afraid you were going mushy on us!  LOL!!

little x is smaller still,

watching how he disappears

is total joy and all fears

are so gone as are the tears

now is time for joy and glee

knowing that you are free!

 



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      nell18-3
July 7th | nell18-3
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

LOL

Don't worry Marg. I'm somewhat naughty at holding grudges.....

I have the logic of hurt me once shame on you hurt me twice shame on me!!!!!

I'll never trust him again LOL

Just was disappointed that he once again failed the boys, yet at the same time relieved that he shows we can never take him at face value

xxx



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emmie
July 3rd | emmie
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

Yep totally irght there his loss that creep will never changeyour boys deserve so much better than him and thats wht they have YOU xxx



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      nell18-3
July 7th | nell18-3
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

Thanks Emz

Thats really sweet of you

xxx



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simplyme01ca
July 3rd | simplyme01ca
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

OOPS!  I meant to hit reply but hit delete instead so I deleted your comment some how!  Sorry...



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      nell18-3
July 3rd | nell18-3
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

LOL T

How could you delete my comment!!!!!! Especially when it was so full of wit and wisdom..................Hee Hee Hee

xxx

 



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           simplyme01ca
July 5th | simplyme01ca
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

Shame, shame shame (the little dude from Fawlty Towers, I think he was Spanish?).

I missed all the wit and wisdom could you please dredge it up from your memory and post it for me again?...ROFL!

T.



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                nell18-3
July 7th | nell18-3
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

Cheeky !!!

xxx



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simplyme01ca
July 3rd | simplyme01ca
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

His loss for sure...!

At least you have low expectations of the man (and I use the term 'man' loosely)...you would think he would consider all his children a source of pride.  Then again from everything I have seen you say about him, he just doesn't have the capabilities to focus anything more than mind games, petty revenge and control!  

Just have a great time on your Icelandic vacation and concentrate on all that is right with your world and sweep the x under the rug!!!!

Take care,

T.



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pauline27
July 3rd | pauline27
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

You are right,It's His loss

Love mum



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      nell18-3
July 3rd | nell18-3
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

Absolutely Mum

Only have to look at the boys to see exactly what he has lost

xxx



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Arna
July 2nd | Arna
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

Hun, he wants to play games, let him.  a multi player game only works if all parties are playing along.  Go on your trip and never mind x-, he clearly never grew up!



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      nell18-3
July 3rd | nell18-3
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

Thanks Arna

Never did like games Especially childrens games LOL

xxx



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           pauline27
July 7th | pauline27
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

Let him play SOLITAIRE don't join in

Lots of love Mum



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                nell18-3
July 7th | nell18-3
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

LOL

That or frustration

xxx



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                     pauline27
July 7th | pauline27
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

I guessed you would think of a better game Haha

Love Mum



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janicepovey
July 1st | janicepovey
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

 As you stated, his loss....sad after so long there is no change. Was hoping there was a glimmer of hope for your boys.

Love Janice



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      nell18-3
July 3rd | nell18-3
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

I was hoping the same Janice

Seems not though, I was once told that not too long ago he told someone at work that there was only one achievement in his life and that was Chris. Sad, statement as he actually had 4 children not 1!!!

xxx



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boredmum
July 1st | boredmum
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

 It is his loss sweetpea.. He is scum & your gorgeous kids have  a awesome mum & dont need that knob in their lives.

Stay strong babe & dont let him get you down, you are so much better than him.

Love ya lots xx



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      nell18-3
July 3rd | nell18-3
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

Thanks Hunni

Actually I am more relieved than anything, I actually feel safer knowing what I am dealing with - a con artist as opposed to wondering if he had changed LOL

xxx



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KathrynR1402
July 1st | KathrynR1402
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

Oh that's sad. Keeping up the pretence to manipulate Chris further. Sad thing is, the damage he will do to the son he is so proud of when that son finally sees thru the deception. And of course, the loss (if it is that in his case) to your younger 3. Leopards can sometimes change their spots, but your discernment was right on, he hasnt yet. As you say, his loss.



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      nell18-3
July 3rd | nell18-3
Re: Now it makes sense !!!

It is sad isnt it Kathryn

Don't think this Leopard is going to change LOL Good job I'm well past caring and by their reaction to all this, so are the boys

xxx



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