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12
Jun
2007

Update

Comment Published at 01:1501:1527 comments27 comments108 Visits108 VisitsReport
Just logged on quickly as I am back at the house to finish cleaning up!!!!!
I'm feeling really strong at the moment, which is great news for me!
I have decided that anyone who thinks that I am the bad person in all this I can't control what they think so I'm finally letting it go! They are all dead to me!
The facts are
I was married for 23 years
I have 4 children with this man
I was living in a house valued at £275,000
(But if the new purchasers don't sign up tomorrow, then the mortgage company will be re possessing and I end up without a penny)
When we were married our income was £75,000 a year and we had a good lifestyle
All our money went on having an open house to "friends"

I am now penniless, homeless and friendless
But I am happier with myself then I can ever remember

So if people think I left this marriage out of boredom or because I fancied a change
Or people think I would willingly put myself and the children through the last 18 months without having a good reason
Do you know what????

SCREW THEM!!!

I am puttting the happiness of myself and my children before money
And believe me there is more profit in happiness and contentment and SAFETY

Hey girls aren't you proud of me for this fighting talk!!!!!
mwah to all my lovely friends here
I would be lost without you all
xxxxxxx

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ChefSharon
June 2007 | ChefSharon
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..........and definitely not friendless!!!  Lots of love out here!  'Boy things are really looking up for you.  'so happy that you got some good news!  I do hope that you can get some of these awful schmucks out of your life once and for all.  Much love, good wishes and GOOD LUCK and good happenings in your new place!!!


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meggles
June 2007 | meggles
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you are amazing, I am blessed to know you


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emmie
June 2007 | emmie
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nice 2 hear you  are feeling so good u are such a strong person and i respect you for that lol hope all goes well with your house tomorrow all the best sweetie you deserve to be happy.

luv emz xx



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MummaBear
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | MummaBear
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You are such a strong person, an inspiration to all.  Yeah, screw them.  People will think what they like and they make up their own mind regardless of what you say to them.  You know how it was, he knows the truth of it even if he does fool others.  We all love you and are proud of you.


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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Thankyou

Really appreciate your very kind words

xxx



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BrightonBelle
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | BrightonBelle
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Good for you, I totally agree with your philosphacy on there being more profit in happiness, contentment and safety. I know that I can't physically help you in your hour of need, I just hope that being here to give advice and being an emotional support will be enough to help you through this tough time.

I am sending you (((hugs))) and loads of strength.

Clare x

P.S I am very proud of you, you go girl!



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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Thankyou Clare

All the emotional support I get here is fantastic and I wouldn't trade it for anything else at all

xxx



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luckyone
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | luckyone
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hi nell ,

 glad you doing well and yes srew them   . As if your happy with and at peace with yourself thats counts more than anything elses . Good luck to you and the kids

juliexx



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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Thankyou Julie

Glad you agree with me

xxx



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julielf
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | julielf
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Good for you.  I am so proud of you.  Happiness and joy are the keys!!


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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They certainly are

Thanks Julie

xxx



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KathrynR1402
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | KathrynR1402
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Lovely to hear you sounding so positive!

Well, I hope the new purchasers do sign tomorrow, but you will survive anyway, especially with the love of your kids, your parents, your true friends and your faith!

You go walk tall in town this week and make those who love you proud! Make the others squirm, eh? It's your ex's turn to feel uncomfortable! You just get on with normal life and see how that maddens him! His hold over you has already weakened. Miracles happen!



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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What a prophetic comment you made Kathryn

I purchasers did sign, not the next day tho!!!! I did go walking in town today and Miracles certainly do happen

xxx



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dramamom
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | dramamom
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You're not friendless.  Look at how many people care about you here!
Hugs!!


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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I know!!!

I am totally gobsmacked its fantastic

xxx



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Marglr
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | Marglr
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Here's to the new start! Here's to the new Helen,alive,full of life and ready to go! You're just starting and you couldn't have a better attitude...so you give them attitude Girl cause it's your time!!!


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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Thankyou Marg

You know what to say to get me fighting

xxx



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kseers
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | kseers
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Well done! you have come so far - hang in there and remember that they have no right to judge you - you are one amazing, strong woman.  Hats off to you!


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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Thankyou so much for your positive words

xxx



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | cazza
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YOU GO GIRL..and know how proud we are of you and hope the sale goes well and you can leave all those horrible people behind you..

Good luck and we miss u, but remember we aint going no where, and we will be still here when you get back ...mwah


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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Thankyou Cazza

They are horrible people!!

Love ya

xxx



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blackwidowkate
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | blackwidowkate
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Hi
I will miss you terribly but at least your words of wisdom are ehre for me to read...hurry back
You are one very amazing woman
Luv Deb


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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Thanks Deb
You know you are one of my heroes here too
I love the way you always make me smile
xxx


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mumof2b
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | mumof2b
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Wow Helen...that's so fantastic to hear. We all have known all along what an amazing, strong person you are.......I'm so glad that you now know it!!!  And that's right SCREW THEM!!!

Great to hear from you!!!

Amanda xxxx



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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Thankyou Amanda
Now I have to put the words into action!!!
Have promised my Mum I'm going to go into town this week
xxx


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yummymummyof3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | yummymummyof3
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WOO HOO I AM PROUD VERY PROUD YOU GO GIRL XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX


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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | nell18-3
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Thankyou hun
That means such a lot to me to know that you are proud of me
mwah xxxx


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