Yesterday was a bad day!!!
Bombshell One!
As you know I have a new home in a small town outside the city I used to live, I have kept the address a secret from EX this has been great for me and the boys to feel relaxed, free and secure in this home.
But the boys came home with the news that EX has got a new job, he is the new paramedic/ambulance man for this small town where we know we live somewhere.  He told the boys that he knew that would go down with me like a lead balloon!!!! Great!! I called my lawyer and she said I can't do anything about it except notify her if I see him hanging around the house. I'm still working my way through all that
Next bombshell!
I had a court summons over a bill I haven't been able to pay, I went to my parents with the boys pre planned for lunch, and I was trying to work through what I was going to say to the debtors when I called them later, my parents are very astute and apparently knew something was wrong, eventually I told them, Dad offered to ring them and try and come to an arrangement for me, which I was really grateful for, he was brilliant, paid half the debt on his card!!!!!!! (yep he amazes me too!) and arranged a payment plan for me with the rest!!!!! Of course, as soon as I get my share of the house money I will pay them back, my parents have done so much already, it will be a point of great pride to me to not be in financial debt to them.
Another bombshell!!!
Talking to the boys last evening, I asked why they have been so "bad attitude" like the last couple of days, they said it is because they are relaxed here at home but they have had to be so tense with their dad, as they never know if he may lose his temper and hit them. !!!!!! I asked them how scared they were and they said very and confess that at times they even hide away from him!!! I can't stand to think of them being like this. They told me though that he is their dad and they love him and never want to stop seeing him. Its so hard!!!
Good news is they have their counsellor coming today