Sounds like you have a lot to work through....maybe focusing on one issue at a time might help.  For example your x keeps changing times etc, that seems to be the most immediate issue.  i hope you can get some closer this year to these problems,  Good luck with it all

Julie xx

What a great way to get it all out and deal with everything you're going through............when you write things down, or in this case type it, it all seems so much clearer. And it's always great when you have a friend who is always going to be 100% honest with you, even if you don't always like what you hear.........

Much love......Amanda xxxxx

I'm proud of you, sweetie.  You're really rising above the situation and making a fresh start.

You are not a pushover.  You never could have escaped -x if you were a pushover. 

It sounds like you just need to practice a change of focus.  Focus on your true friends, not on your false old friends.  Focus on the good things with your kids and not the bad things.  Focus on building your new life, and don't dwell on your old one. 

I have total confidence in you that you're getting it all together again and everytime you're reaching further than you have before and making your life - and those of the people you love - better than they were before.

You go girl!!!  Love you lots,

Leith

This is great Helen, you have starting point....print this out and have a copy on your fridge and one in front you when your on the computer & phone, especially the phone, if it has anything to do with the X. 

7) if i could, give you the power for positive thinking....then stand tall and proud, like the wonderful woman you are. Positive thinking to help get you through the bad days and also to help with not taking any rubbish from the X. Sweetie as soon as you feel those bad thoughts coming on get on here and yell for one of us, to help get you through it. Sending you the most powerful vibes i can muster with a mixture of hugs & love thrown in.

Janice xxxxx