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Calmer Again

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Daniel has woken up in a much brighter and positve mood, he is adamant that if he hears from his dad he is going to tell him he is taking a break for a couple of weeks. We have been chatting and decided that this is our weekend and we aren't going to talk about -x or the situation he is in, just relax and enjoy the time.

Tonight we are having a KFC supper with my brother and parents, totally unhealthy I know but my parents wanted to treat the boys this evening to a take out of their choice by way of rewarding them for this weeks achievements.

So far we have spent the morning doing general tidying up in their bedrooms !!!!!!!! A task in itself, this afternoon I have to pop to work but then we are going to go into town for a bit, quite a treat LOL

Apparently we have storms coming tomorrow of strong winds, so I'm doing what I can today so we can hide indoors tomorrow, could be intersting if the weather forecasters have got it right !!!!!

xxx

 

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janicepovey
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | janicepovey
Re: Calmer Again

Dear Helen, i'll send you some of our beautiful weather, so and your boys can get outdoors tomorrow.

You sure bring back memories, with children and cleaning up their  bedrooms....hehe....i'm so pleased that i don't have to  go through that ordeal anymore.

i was so pleased to read that Daniel woke in a more positive mood....makes for more pleasant surroundings & it sounds like he has  made a final decision about wanting a break from  seeing  the X....that's good.

Can i join you all in KFC....love it ....only have  it about once a year  but it is like the body tell's me i need to bad and yeah it is such so yummy!!!!!

Hugs Janice xxxxxMySpace and Orkut Rose Glitter Graphic - 8

 



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Calmer Again

Thanks Janice

I bet you don't miss the days of shouting at the state of the bedrooms like I have been doing this weekend !!! LOL Still they are done now, well daniel's is, Thomas tends to do his in 15 minute intervals

Its been raining here most of the day so some of your weather would be very much appreciated right about now !!!

xxx

 



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ajv00
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | ajv00
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Well done to both your boys, you must be proud. 

I hope you all survive the strong winds, batton down the hatches!  LOL

Take care - Angie



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      nell18-3
March 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Calmer Again

Thanks Angie

Think the storms by passed us as we haven't seen anything yet, except rain of course but we are well used to that !!!

xxx

 



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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | emmie
Re: Calmer Again

Good to hear Daniels feeling happier today , yummy KFC just what the boys deserve a nice fatty treat .

Bedrooms can become a task huh? ecspecially kids bedrooms i know the girls can get theirs in a right state in a matter of seconds .

Here it is windy as hell out and its raining too i dont know what its been like today i slept all day but tomorrow the furthesst im going is in the car and to and from sues i dont like rain . LOL. Enjoy your weekend prat free

Luv Emz xx



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      nell18-3
March 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Calmer Again

Thanks Emz

It got to the point with thomas' room that we couldn't find the floor LOL But its ok it was under some of his other stuff !!!!

Daniel did an excellent job bless him, spent ages on it and was really pleased to show his work off

xxx



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mariamum
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | mariamum
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Mmmmm! KFC I want to come!!!  We were told the gale force winds were coming too I hate the wind it always does the most damage if my fence panels get blown down again I'm going to scream!!!! 

Poor Daniel I know how he feels I always worry and stress about how someone will react because no matter how hard I try to predict the outcome in my head I can never prepare myself for the worst.  Give him a hug and tell him from me that keeping everyone happy all of the time is an impossible task and he has to be selfish sometimes and put himself first.

Love Maria xxxx



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | nell18-3
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Well its all quiet here at the moment, no sign of those storms here anyway.

I gave Daniel your message, he wants everyone to be happy and hasn't quite grasped the concept that its not down to him to be the one to make sure everyone gets what they want

We have had a lovely day though so he is very relaxed right now

xxx



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Arna
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | Arna
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Oh I can smell it now!  My fave bits of chicken! lol.  Have some for me!

I'm glad that Daniel is making his own decisions and that he is going to tell his dad.  it is very important that it comes from the horses mouth or the -x might think it was coming from you.  also, it will give Daniel a good sense of having stood up for himself and prove to himself that he is his own person with his own mind.



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      nell18-3
March 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Calmer Again

X thinks its me anyway, after all there is no other possible reason in his mind why his children wouldn't want to see him, he doesnt believe he has ever done anything wrong !!!!!!!!!!!

The KFC was lush mmmmmmmmmm

xxx



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fairymama25
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | fairymama25
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Well done Daniel, Im pleased he feels more positive today, and I hope the boys enjoy their treats tonight. I know Im worried about the wind, I read half of people should expect some damage.. which means Im gonna be scared the house will fall down.. its already pretty creaky.. Em x



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Calmer Again

Its more than a little worrying isn't it when they start warning you about damage to homes being likely !!!!

Hope everything stays safe with you

xxx

 



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loopylisa
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | loopylisa
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Good on Daniel!! I'm really glad a feels a little brighter today. As I said yesterday, making decisions like this are really hard aren't they?

 Enjoy your KFC-we had it last weekend,it's Chinese tonight. Have a fab weekend ,Loopy



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      nell18-3
March 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Calmer Again

Thankyou

Have a great weekend yourself too

xxx

 



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cazza
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | cazza
Re: Calmer Again

Thats great that Daniel  is feeling Better.. and yummo KFC . we had that tonight as well lol..

Hope the weather isnt too rough for you all...

xxx cazza



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Calmer Again

Thanks Cazza

I just love KFC myself too !!!!

I'll let you know what happens with the storms

xxx



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lightbee
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | lightbee
Re: Calmer Again

I'm glad he's feeling better.  Hope the storms aren't too bad!

I think it'd still be a good idea to implement some of Kathryn's suggestion on your earlier blog.  She really is one smart cookie, isn't she?!



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Calmer Again

I know

She made some great suggestions didn't she

Thanks Leith

xxx

 



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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | llmunchkin
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Hi Helen, I am very pleased to hear that things have improved today... I have been following your blogs, and I hadn't been able to think of anything helpful to say.  That ex of yours is a manipulative, immature, selfish piece of work, and I can't believe all the ridiculous mind games he plays.

It must be such an emotional drain for you, and you must be so relieved that you are out from that relationship.  All the best to Daniel, and it sounds like he is making some very bold and brave decisions.  Good on him, it is his life, and spending time with him is a privilege that his father is abusing.

Have a great day and enjoy that naughty KFC!



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | nell18-3
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Thankyou Lui

I'll definitely enjoy the KFC LOL Yummy

Love your very accurate assessment of the -x

xxx



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Amerlinwinga
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | Amerlinwinga
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Well hope things turn out ok and you all enjoy yourselves and maybe have some fun and quality time!

Hugs always Tee



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | nell18-3
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Ah thankyou

Fun and Quality time is high on our agenda this weekend

xxx

 



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winja
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | winja
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ohhh i love indoor days AND kfc!

hope daniel is ok and it all works out for him. can be so hard when kids have to deal with adult issues

take care and dont get blown away!

xxxnat



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      nell18-3
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2008 | nell18-3
Re: Calmer Again

Thanks Nat

Its not fair that kids have pressures like this is it

xxx



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