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Great Sadness

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This is one blog I wasn't expecting to write

Have just had a devastating day with the end result being my daughter Amy has lost her baby

I really don't want to go into details here as we are all really upset as you can imagine

Amy and I have known there were problems for about a week, but you Hope don't you.............

She woke me at 1.30am this morning and we have been at hospital all day. As they scanned her it was clear that baby was no longer alive and had probably died some time before. As she was in so much pain, losing a lot blood and having severe blood pressure problems it was decided to give her an immediate D & C too as they couldn't risk anything being left behind and posing infection risks.

Please accept my thanks here for all your well wishes and concern.  I know I have a lot of friends who will be sad not only for Amy but for my Mum (pauline27) SIL (sillapilla) and myself

I will read any comments anyone writes but please understand why I won't feel up to responding

 

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kathryn-solaris
December 2008 | kathryn-solaris
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condolences to ya lovely lady Helen and family ::('s thinking of ya from becca.


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boredmum
December 2008 | boredmum
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Awww Helen, I am so sorry for you & Amy & your family. Sending all my love to you all.

Love Dee xxx



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Domestic-warrior
December 2008 | Domestic-warrior
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So sorry to hear this sad news.....my thoughts are with you and sending some healing vibes to your daughter.

xox



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Arna
December 2008 | Arna
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That is sad hun.  I'm sorry it happened.  You and your family take all the time you need.  Thinking of you and your family.



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monarogirl
December 2008 | monarogirl
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So sad to hear of your loss Helen. Thoughts are with you.xxxx

 



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Amerlinwinga
December 2008 | Amerlinwinga
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Im thinking of you all  and i sorry to hear this news....Im praying for you and your family! If there is anything you need please feel free....

Hugs kisses and thought are with you and your whole family.

Tee



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julielf
December 2008 | julielf
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Oh Helen I am so very sorry!  I pray that Amy recovers quickly both physically and emotionally.  I know that she especially is going to find it extremely difficult but she is so blessed to have you and your Mum and Sister-in-law to help her in this time.   May God bless you all and give you peace!



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lightbee
December 2008 | lightbee
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Oh sweet - I'm so sorry to hear the news.  I'm thinking of and praying for you all.

Leith
xoxooxooxoxo



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janicepovey
December 2008 | janicepovey
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 This is so very sad, my deepest thoughts are with Amy, yourself, Pauline & Sillapilla. I send strength and faith that they may see you all through this sad time....especially Amy.

Janice xxx

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ajv00
December 2008 | ajv00
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Oh Helen, this is such a sad thing to have happened, I just want to let you know that I am thinking of you and your family

Take care Angie xo



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matthew
December 2008 | matthew
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 Very sad Nell - we also went through this experience and it is one of the worst things anyone has to face.  My thoughts are with you and your daughter, I hope you can pass through the grieving together as best as possible.  



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emmie
December 2008 | emmie
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oh sweetie i am sooo sorry big hugs just know i will be thinking of you all send my love and plenty of hugs to Amy xxx



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nabutters
December 2008 | nabutters
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im so sorry,i dont really know what to say......just that i am thinking of you all and send my love and thoughts.....

na xxxxxx



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cathbusymum
December 2008 | cathbusymum
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 Oh I'm so sorry to hear the sad news. My heart goes out to you, Amy, Pauline and your SIL.  

Thinking of you all, especially Amy.

Cath xxoo

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SteffCharlotte
December 2008 | SteffCharlotte
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I really feel for all of you.. such a sad sad thing to happen.. thinking of you all!

Steff xxx



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kseers
December 2008 | kseers
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Poor poor Amy - my heart really goes out to her, what heartbreak - and for you and Pauline and sillapilla too.  Wishing we could send healing hugs to all of you and praying for healing and comfort for you all....



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Rukia
December 2008 | Rukia
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sending you, mum and Amy and your SIL huge hugs and loe sweety.

will be in my thoughts and prayers.



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lonely28
December 2008 | lonely28
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My dear sweet friend.....My heart broke when I read your blog this morning. I will admit that I read it an hour ago but I needed that little time to find the words to say. My deepest sympathies to you and to your family. I am so very sorry that Amy has had to endure this terrible loss. Miss g, jd and I send all our love in the world. There are four candles lit here for you, Amy, Pauline and the little angel. My thoughts and prayers are with you always but especially today. How I wish I was there for the both of you. We will all be here for you and your family whenever you need us.... you know how to get hold of me day and night if you need.

love to you all,

fi xoxox



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KathrynR1402
December 2008 | KathrynR1402
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Oh Helen, I am so very sorry to hear about your family's loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and especially with Amy and her fiancee. I hope she recovers in ever way speedily and fully.

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December 2008 | KathrynR1402
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cassaustin
December 2008 | cassaustin
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Im so sorry Helen.

My thoughts are with you and your family xoxox



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electrifying02
December 2008 | electrifying02
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oh helen

i am so sorry to hear your news my thoughts are with you and your family

belxx



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monyq83
December 2008 | monyq83
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Im really sorry to hear your news Helen, I heard it along the grapevine. Just wanted to pop in and send you all my love. Good luck over the next few weeks, U guys are gonna need alooooootta hugs. So here, Im sending you all mine. (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Hope that's enough if you need more let me know xox



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Marglr
December 2008 | Marglr
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Oh my,so very,very sad.  Take time Helen,tell her the only thing is time. Sending well wishes.



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MrsSanders
December 2008 | MrsSanders
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So,so sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts to you all esspecially Amy. I know you will take loving care of each other during this time.

Luv and Hugs,Winnie.xxxx



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tassiebiarch
December 2008 | tassiebiarch
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Oh thats terrible, i thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take care

Tassie xx



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natelz1
December 2008 | natelz1
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o nell! this breaks my heart to read, im so so so sorry for all your loss. thinking of you and massive hugs xxx



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anniebabe
December 2008 | anniebabe
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helen i am saddened to read this . my thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

i am truly saddened by this especially as i have got to know you all.

lots of big hugs

annie xxxooo



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Philosopher13
December 2008 | Philosopher13
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 I am so sorry for your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family. I will pray for your daughter's health as well. **hugs**



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