Hi there, thank you to all for your warm welcome.  I am a mother of 4 beautiful boys, recently divorced and chilling out at home for a while after working full time for most of my life.

I live in a small and very cold town of Stanthorpe, a long way from no where really.  My boys are Joshua 14, Ethan 11, Kayne 10, (yeah that's close i know) and Bryce 6.  they have adapted well with my split which is going on 5 years now.  I have recently meet a new love, and would like to hear some advice on this, as it very important to me to do the right thing by my children, and of course be happy all at the same time.

Cheers Nicolexx