advice anyone??  with meds that no longer work for our 7 year old - he suffers from alcohol and solvent exposure, in addition to a very rare genetic disorger that manifests itself similarly to FAS - i, for the first time in my many years of parenting, find myself without answers.  the tantrums are something that have to be seen to be believed ( i am home from work today because of 'damage' he has inflicted on my body and i am currrently tending to open wounds on my arms and legs).  he is behind in school for obvious reasons and angry at his biological mother for drinking during pregnancy and i seem to bear the brunt of that.  i kept him home from school today because he was exhausted and i couldn't bear to send him 'away' from me.  i know it's not his fault but this has been ongoing and it is sucking the life out of me!  we have tried everything and are becoming somewhat desperate.  ideas anyone???