Hi, my name is Lavinia and I am a mother to 2 grown children, Kat and Luke, and a Nanny to 2 Grandsons - Marshall and Brodie...

I also have three stepchildren - Steve, Jess and Mic. I dont' see much, if at all, of the two youngest (long, drawn out and exspensive story), one is living with his mother and the other has her own family now - but I am close with the oldest, Steve...

I married the most wonderful man in the world. He was the single most caring, loving and passionate man I have ever me - or likely to ever meet again.

...I lost Nigel in August of 2003 to Chronic liver disease and there really isn't a day that goes by where I don't think of him...

Nigel and I 2000

I currently attend university where I am doing my bachelor of education and I am in my second year.