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The Wooden Bowl

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I guarantee you will remember this tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a
week from now, a month from now, a year from now.

A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and
four-year old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was
blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table.
But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made
eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped
the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.

The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. "We
must do something about father," said the son. "I've had enough of his
spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor." So the husband and wife
set a small table in the corner. There, grandfather ate alone while the rest
of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two,
his food was served in a wooden bowl!

When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometime he had a
tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for
him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.

The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing
with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, "What are you
making son?"

Just as sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for
you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up." The four-year-old
smiled and went back to work.
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears
started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both
knew what must be done.

That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led
him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days he ate every
meal
with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to
care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth
soiled.

Sent to me by my grandmother written by I dont know On that note, I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad
it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way
he/she handles three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled
Christmas tree lights.
I've learned that, regardless of your relationship with your parents,
you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.
I've learned that making a "living" is not the same thing as making a
"life."
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt
on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back.
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you. But, if you
focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your work and doing
the very best you can, happiness will find you.
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart,
I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or
just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.
I've
learned thatyoushouldpassthisontoeveryoneyoucare about
I just did.

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anniebabe
5.00 (Excellent) | March 4th | anniebabe
Re: The Wooden Bowl

such sound advice in that story! so obvious and yet so forgotton

its a great philosophy to live by! so many people letlife go by them or dont actaully discover "what is imprtant in life"

like they say do you see the glass half full? or half empty?

i have always tried to "pick up the pieces and moved on" when things are tough. i also have "tried to smell the roses on the way" it is so important in life.

sometimes you cant make yourself a victim it is the way you carry yourself in life that is impotant and yes how you handle a situation

cheers annie



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pagan-mum-of-three
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | pagan-mum-of-three
Oh my,
Maybe I'm still a little emotional, but that so made me cry. You never know what you have til it's gone. 


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ssedgar
5.00 (Excellent) | January 2007 | ssedgar
WOW

That was really moving, it is a wonderful message to remember i will certainly be passing it on.

Thanks for sharing



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