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The last word

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This is the last I will say on what has been going on. I just want to set a couple of things straight.

* The ONLY thing I said about this person is that she is not a parent. That is a FACT, NOT a put down.

* I NEVER said anything about her advice not being good. I'm sure she has plenty of great advice to offer.

* I NEVER called her a dumbarse, or implied that she is. Not long ago I sent her a 'wise owl' compliment so why on earth would I think she was dumb?

* I NEVER said it is wrong to boil meat. I simply pointed out that it is not necessary. I guess I should have worded things better. I didn't mean that what she said is crap, I just mean crap, you don't HAVE to boil the meat. I did not mean it in an offensive way.

It is a shame she took it all to heart because it was never meant that way. Saying she's not a parent was NEVER meant to be a put down, or any sort of implication that she does not know anything about kids. It is just that I remember what it was like when I first had kids - there is a lot to learn! This person already has a good knowledge of child-rearing and that's great. But that doesn't mean she knows everything, nor do I, noone really does. I only pointed out the boiled meat thing so that she, and others, know that it is not necessary, that's all. I cannot understand what was so wrong with that.

That's it now, no more on the matter.

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Arna
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2008 | Arna
Re: The last word

Glad you have decided to take this approach.  Misunderstandings happen all the time and it is good to sort them out.



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dannii17
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2008 | dannii17
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You dont need to explain yourself.I just wanted that part about me out of your advice thats it. I dont think i know it all and i know you learn more and more everyday when your parent.Yes i have had alot of experience with kids but iknow things will be totally different with my own kids. This really is a stupid thing to argue about really "boiled meat" !!! every parent or parent o be what eve has different out looks on things.Everyone has their on parenting style and no one should be put down for how they raise or will raise there children.. Age is only a number so i dont take notice of what people say, i know ill be a good mum, so does my family so im not worried about peoples put downs. But like i said no i dont know everything no1 does but that was my opinion about the meat.I just think its easier to boil it with veggies and mash it up all together.

Dannii xo



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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2008 | llmunchkin
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Hello... That is a nice apology, I hope you guys can get over it now.  With parenting, there is no 100% right and wrong, the smartest thing to do is get as much information as possible, then sift through it and make decisions on what is best for you and your family - without going off half baked - get it boiled meat?  Happy Wednesday matey : )



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