Well the house is coming along slowly, we now have a frame and gutters and the plumbing is in. Woo Hoo. Both my boys have had thir birthdays and were so spoilt it is not funny LOL.

The ex wants to try and work thing out but i don't know how i feel anymore. I am not suer if i want to get back together. I am so consious of the boys and i don't want things to go pear shaped again and hurt them??

We are going out for tea on Friday night as i think we really need to talk. I think he is under the impression we will work things out and he can move into my house> that would be a long time in the making i think.

My biggest thing with him is he was always full of empty promises. and not a lot has changed.  We will see what he has to say on Friday and go from there i guess. no point worrying is there.