so glad you were able to talk to her, Rach. 

Hello - I can only imagine the mail... LOL .

Did I miss something, I see you mentioned concerns with Codi and preschool the other day... But I couldn't see anything else about it lately.  I see you have cut him back a few days, I hope the balance works for you.  I have Jaydee going 2 days a week, and every time I think he is ready for the extra day - he shows that he isn't.  He is so exhausted after 2 days, and clingy, that I couldn't possibly send him for another day.

I hope that you find cutting back works for you - I really think the balance is great... I love the skills Jaydee learns by being with a group of children, and the lovely art and crafts, and they have similar care practices to our parenting style - so all that is good.  However I love my cuddley baby on Wednesdays, and that is our special day.  I know you are very busy, however I am sure that you will get more done when you have piece of mind, and know that Codi is happy too.