hi there all
                     As you can tell this is all new to me, l'm just looking for a place to come for bit of a chat and hopefully obtain some friendships along the way. As stated previously in my setup details l am the mum of 3 children ( one of which is an angel).  There is Jiordyn my daughter who is 4 (going on 44 LOL) and there there is Maddigan (maddi for short) (maddi is our angel baby and she would be 2 now) and then there is the latest addition to our family, little Roarke who has just clocked over to 8 months old. As you would all know life is hectic but full of joy (most of the time lol). I am also looking for people whom l share my experiences with (with the regards to the loss of a child) but that is not my only agenda, through the last few years after loosing maddi l've had friends and even strangers go through this journey with little or no help. As l'm of the understanding bringing a child into this world is the greatest gift in the world as a parent and when that gift has been taken from us so suddenly, your world is shattered and torn apart, and then to deal with the attitude that "you'll get on with", "you'll have more children" this only adds fuel to the fire. So for the last few years I've taken it apon myself to hopefully make child and infant loss a widely know subject, as this is one of the subjects that is just not discussed unless its happened to you, (and the relevance is, it doesn't effect people until it happens to them) But the mother, fathers, siblings etc of these children want them to be acknowledged, so what l'm asking of all you wonderful folk out there who have been through a similar journey is,
what is the best way to do this???
l know myself when l lost my daughter there was no books on the subject at all ! (l'm refering to books on  other peoples experiences, As when you know of other peoples loss it make you feel that no your not the only one in the world that this happens to)
so l'm looking at trying to put a book together with my own experiences aswell as others experience, but l would like some feedback on how you beleive this would be received within the community? (and l do understand that for some people that this would just be too heartbreaking to relive)
so please feel free to add a comment or give some advice as l'm hoping to try and pop in each day to see how all you wonderful folk are travelling
thanks for taking the time to share a minute with me
beck