The kids have gone. We havae had them 2 weeks in a row and for about the last 5 weekends. Im at my wits end i dont know what to do. I have tried so hard with them but dont seem to get anywhere. They have their mum and dad they dont need me and they make that clear. I no it sounds silly they r only young but not stupid. When they want something toys, things like that they come to me, when it comes to cuddles playing they go straight to ryan i no its instinct but i been with ryan for over a year now and they treat me like i dont no. I have spoke to ryan about it i thinkhe understands but nothing gets done i dont know what to do i have tried the talk im not your mum but im here 4 u and it dont sink in Jake the youngest ok he is 2 so dpont really understand but connor the oldest he 5 he knows better he isnt stupid i dont no what to do i feel like giving up!!!