Hi honey,

Please remember that 1st and foremost comes your health! . . Without you and your health in tact your family will suffer. So you need to make decisions based on that. Seems harsh I know but it is realistic. I myself have BPD and I know just how it can effect you especially in times of stress . .

As for your 13 yr-old, I wish I could give a quick fix but sadly there isn't one . . My 13 yr0old is now 17 and is still doing the same crap. I ignore it for the most part and really concentrate on the other children . . The other children are learning to ignore their sister as she is just 'being a pain' as they now call it . .

I hope things settle down for you and please go and talk to some-one . . .

Cheers Kellz

I had the exact same problem. I got help through a family centre. They have counsellors just for teens (and everyone else) and i found this helped a lot. It didn't stop her completely but calmed her down. It wasn't til she was a bit older that she got better although she still has her moments. Sometimes there are camps she could go on, it gives you and your son a break too. Good luck and let me know how you go.

Hey,

im so sorry to hear your feeling like this :(   i think she is just going through a stage,im only 17 and didnt go through this but alot of my friends did and when i exxplained to them what there doing to there family they soon stopped..Have you tried sitting down with her and explaining she isnt doing any good by acting this way??

I really hope she works it all out and the outbursts stop,i also hope your little man can forget about all this and can one day understand some girls just get like this..

Take care and try not to stress.

Dannii xxo