Ok so as I said in question and answer this isnt a topic about my relationship but obviously having a son and being pregnant we have problems like most from time to time, I love watching "Loose women" the topics are very much real life and you get honest opinions from a panel of women!
They discussed "sould a couple stay together for the sake of there children?"
And my gut reaction is NO
But they seemed to favour YES but that opinion did come along with you must still be able to get along communicate enjoy spending time as a family unit even if you were not in love with your partner.
That bit I understand as time goes by we all lose the butterflys although mine pop bk from time to time after 6 yrs hehe I still could'nt imagine playing house and not loving my boyfreind, it's not so much a case of being in love but there has to be affection there doesnt there?
I could'nt just sleep in the same bed have meal's together take family outing's when it's not in your heart....
Anyway as I was saying my gut said no which I stick by but its all made me have a good think my 1st noo reaction was based on the theory that all unhappy couple's argue 24/7, dont have a family life, more like living under same roof taking turn's who's having the kid's this weekend?
So whats your gut feeling? did you change your mind after getting the full story?
Hugs Jo xxx |