Well who ever it was is wrong lol, they come in 3 sets of three by all acounts and in my case always when you cld do without it all

the naighboures are back on my case, there was me thinking this was going to become a family st like it was 4 yrs ago when we bought the house ha fat chance of that a bit of sunshine and i mean a bit the naughboures are sat out kids running wild whilst they blatently ignore then as they chat drink and smoke them selves to death....

i gt reported to the council why? ....well we discovered a lill leak thats trickling water onto the bk street, we had a good idea it was coming from under the footings we'd put in place for that extention they put a stop too when we were half way through, but we coulnt be sure as weve been having heavy rain for over a week, the first fine day and by 2pm the councils at my door informing me there has been a complaint but why its wasnt doing any one any harm and the water was going from our yard and be collected in a drain 3 ft away so the waste of water is minimal? any way after pissin me off the council "ask" that we sort it when we can obviously being bad timing and the fact that its doing no one any harm even if it was they'd have to wait as we cant afford plummers and diggers just yet and have agree's that there wont be any nagging from them but if we could sort it within 6 mnths and def before winter as the cold weather could crack the pipe more ha just wish tha naighboures had heard after they seem to be going out of there way to mk life difficult for me time and time again

then we had to go to the birthday doo mac loved it actually being a kiddy party i wish i cld say the same the mil got right on my wick and mac has passed his cold on to me lill bugger couldnt give it daddy. but bk to the mil winge...

we got there she stodd infront of me for 15 min then she heard bobby asking if i wanted to sit down but i was avoiding one of the guests an old freind of my sisters i just didnt want to deal with then im playing with mac she suggests we sit down bobby said no and why but she puched and pushed to get her own way till i tile her im preg not ill and i dont want to sit down not now and not in 10 min were fine here, so after that i ignored her and was playing peekaboo we mac he cld just get under the bar and look through the gap were the hand rail is, and asked bobby to get a pic of him as he looked so cute playing when she took him the cow ....

now im mad!!!!!!! his lill face looking for me tears which then flared up his cough so she had to bring him bk and it took me 10 min to calm  him down...... but the best is yet to come her fella is 50 on my bday and after last yr i gt really mad that my bdays always put on bk burner to meet there arrangements and we never gwt to clebrate after everyone else were too skint and my bday passed, not relising his 50th obviously but when she tells me she thinks it best i "choose an elective section so i can go to the doo, but then if he comes on your due date you cld get a sitter i suppose" is she bloody mad?.... erm my baby would be 3 wks if i choose vbac 5 if i have a section elective or not but younger if hes late so i have no intention of getting a sitter to celebrate my birthday and least of all to celebrate her bf i may not have even recovered but she doesnt give a dam

maybe i sound like a cow i dunno im past caring but its not bobby's dad not even his step dad they only gt serious about 2 yrs ago so hes never even been a father figure and im fed up with pleasing everyone else and what we want is forgotten so when  she gets her bk up ill remind her that her input stopped me having a 21st  and ev dam bday since

then  his dad who usually lays low he doesnt bother us much he calls in favours but then so do we its a much better relationship but his step daughters getting married last yr when the plans were being made bobby gt ropped in to driving for them but i wasnt preg then.....he took the cover to drive other cars off his ins policy as we didnt need it and to save a few quid of course,..... but the best of that if ....im having a section its 3 days b4 and a 2hr rd trip x 2 for him, so if we say we cant go theyve paid for our places at this huge fancy doo but if we go hes to pay out extra on the car ins (can not afford!!!!) ill be uncomfy( were do i pee???) and exhausted by the end of it all not really whet id planned if im having a section that wk so what do you do???

so there you go the three bad things came and went i think we had one lill bit of good luck and the cycle begins again if this has to be my life can the nxt good thing be the baby im fed up now far too fat and the sooner i get recovered the sooner i can kick my mil ass outta here...lol its just the alternatives are ef illegal....