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Why does my toddler bite?

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My two year old had the phase of biting me and other people for about six months. I was very frustrated at this. Another parent told me to give him salt in his mouth or bite him back, but honestly i couldn't get that over my heart as i didn't want to hurt him, coz that might show him that hurting someone is actualy okay. So i went and looked it up on the internet for some advise as to what to do about the problem and i found this piece of advice from the website parenting.com. It has been really useful to me as to how to take on the problem so i thought to share it with other moms seeking advise on biting. hope it helps

xxx

It may seem as if you're living with Dracula's daughter, but nope  -- it's just a day with your toddler, who has now entered a biting phase. In most cases, your tiny terror will stop biting once she learns to speak more, and grows more teeth. This phase will pass within a few months, so don't fret.

Reason for biting: Teething  -- biting down makes her gums feel better.
What to do: Offer her a soft teething toy or wet washcloth.

Reason for biting: Frustration  -- lacking language skills, she bites when she can't say what she wants.
What to do: Try to offer the right word. Tell her that biting is not okay, and give her something else to chew.

Reason for biting: Attention  -- unable to speak, she'll try to engage her peers by taking a chunk out of them.
What to do: Model the words for her ("You'd like to play with Sabrina"), and remind her that biting is wrong.

Reason for biting: Anger  -- toddlers are notorious for temper tantrums. Biting may occur during one of these fits.
What to do: Remove your little hothead from the situation; give the no-biting talk once she's cooled down.

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emmie
January 2009 | emmie
Re: Why does my toddler bite?

my 2 year old did bite quite a bit when her back molars were co ming through poor thing was in so much pain i coould hardly blame her :) xx



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Arna
January 2009 | Arna
Re: Why does my toddler bite?

Ours bite for fun too! lol.  Though, we don't encourage it at all.

My partner and I thought about giving them chilli sauce, but there's a problem.  They actually like it! lol.  ah well, they are not having my chilli sauce any way!

It is a phase and they do grow out of it, though still catching my almost 6 year old biting herself on occassion.



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