My partner is going to New Zealand, next month to see his nine yr old son, the problem i have is that he will be staying at his X wifes house. he does this twice a yr and then once thay come here (only he stays with us) each time i know that they are talking over dates for each trip , i start to get very tense and anxious. he says there is nothing to worry about, and im sure there isnt but, what i want to know is ..is this right?? should he be doing this to me?? i know he wants to see his son, and i want him to see his son, but the amout of s*&^t i go through, (around 3 months of these feelings each yr total) (a couple of weeks prior, then the 10 days he's gone, then a couple of weeks after) also the first time he went, he came back wearing his wedding ring , he said she gave it back to him and he only had it on so he didnt lose it, but i notice in his holiday photo's he was wearing it while over there.. they seperated because she cheated on him... so he was the one left behind... she went over seas.. and stayed overseas... i am worried that old feelings may arise ...
Please if anyone has any advise i would love it, going out of my mind... next trip April..aaaAAAGGGHHH!!
Thanks in advance..
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