Heck Stace, that is some scary stuff that you have been going through, I am sorry to hear about it.  I hope that you manage to get Jake sorted and that this stalker gets caught and dealt with properly VERY SOON.  Take care of you, be safe and keep us up to date. xox

thanks for the help guys i will gets some extra lights for the yard and that crocker thing arna was talking about i may get one or 2 of those aswell it is quiet atm but dave is home till next wensday night.so i will get all those things done before then.

thanks agaon for all your suggestions and for being here.

love stace

Hey Stace,

OMG How scary for you .You really should call the police. Also have you thought of getting a burgular alarm and a security light preferably with a camera. Keep safe sweetie . Thinking of you

Luv Emz xxx

OMG . .

Please make contact with the police ASAP . .   This is just too weird and so very very wrong!!! . . . Also get in touch with your local victims of crime unit as they can help you out in getting funds together for some security lights etc . .

Holy shit honey - PLEASE speak to the police . . .

Worried Kellz

That is terrible.  You need to get those sensor lights.  Oh, and solar lights for your garden.  Can get those from ebay reasonably cheaply and they give off enough light to see your way down a path.

Those frog croaker things with the volume turned way up in strategic areas around the house and garden can act as a deterrent as well.  Anything that lights hidden corners or catches people by surprise is going to make them think twice about harrassing you and your family.

And go to the police!  They have to know these things in order to keep not just you and your family safe, but other families too.  Most of the time, a stalker is not just stalking you, they are also targeting your neighbourhood and other people around you.

Just thought of another thing that might help.  have areas in your garden that are bare with just soft earth.  Any footprints left behind, cast them with craft plaster so that they can be used to identify the person later on.

Having pics of your garden and house would help so much more in seeing what other ways you could stalker proof your property without messing up the aesthetics and practical things, but not a good idea given you are frightened already.  If I think of other ways of helping, I'll let you know.

One good thing, it means you are smoking less.  Damn, send that stalker here, I soooo need to quit! lol.

Oh my goodness, from one who has been on the recieving end of a stalker, I urge you to get to the Police and explaine to them exactly what has been going on and is going on. Stalkers just dont stop, they have their own agenda and do not get bored. Please lodge your worry, if the police are called and no sign fine, but if they are aware of your situation they will respond quickly and you may need that in a moment. So please,please make the police aware. Stalkers dont alway's leave a trail and the Police are aware of that also.

Hope the school can help you find out what  is worrying your little one, best wishes.

Luv Winnie.xxxx

I agree with the girls below. You have to tell the police.  You have every right to feel safe in your own home. Don't put yourself through something that could be prevented. Please go and speak to the police, there's got to be something they can do!

fi xoxo

Hi stacey

That is so scary for you and the kids and i think you should call the police, dont let this person make you the victim,...

Hope all goes well for jake at school and the teacher can find out whats wrong with your little man...

Please take care

xx cazza

This is really scary stuff Stacey

You have to call the police and let them know what is going on, even if it just means that your fears are logged somewhere so if at a later date you have to call them, they know you are genuine and have had trouble in the past

Thinking of you

xxx