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ADHD - Suggestions PLEASE!!

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Hi Everyone - My name is Rose and my son (who is going to be 12 in a few days) was diagnosed with ADHD when he was approximately 6 years old.  This has been and continues to be a long, hard struggle for my family.  While I have definately seen improvements over the years in many different areas,  I still can't get past feeling "guilty" each time I don't have answers or thoughts on how to help him as situations present themselves.  I find myself always feeling that there has got to be something I am doing wrong as a "Mom" that has brought on these issues.  I am hoping that by joining Minti I can obtain more knowledge from others to help my son handle situations better and in a more positive manner.  He (Jonny) is a very wonderful, loving, respectful, outgoing and intelligent boy but tends to be misunderstood because he is maybe a little to aggressive in how he presents himself.  I feel that although he is friendly and tries, he has a very hard time making friends and I don't know how to help change this for him.... It hurts me that he has no one that he "hangs out with" outside of school.  Does anyone have any suggestions on helping him socialize with other children his age?  I look forward to hearing opinions and suggestions from others.  I try to keep a positive attitude but it is also a struggle..... 

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Thinkpositive09
March 2009 | Thinkpositive09
Re: ADHD - Suggestions PLEASE!!

Thank you for your advice and suggestions.  I guess I am having a really hard time "accepting" that he IS growing up and doesn't need me as much as he used to.  I am really going to try your suggestions.  I appreciate your sharing.  I guess that is a mother's instinct.....always there to catch them and make things better....   



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August88
March 2009 | August88
Re: ADHD - Suggestions PLEASE!!

First I would have to say that you seem to be very hard on yourself and now that he is approaching the teen years it really comes down to moving your focus away from him a little more and coming back to you. All I can suggest is finding out where his interests lie and go from there. Only he knows what that is and how you can help him is by listening to what that is. This is when the really interesting times do start and to have more positive times with my teens I have found that I need to really get to know them and not always force my own stuff on them. You do get to have more freedom for yourself then. We can't always rescue them, that is the hardest thing, letting them go to solve these problems for themselves. Welcome to minti and hope to see you around the site.



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