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Sep
2006

Featured Member: Wildrose

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First, I would like to say Thank You for allow me to be the latest Featured Member.  I still don't know why, but well...here I am... and for other Minti's members...I can't wait to see you be the next featured member too. It will be great to know you more.

  • Starting with name, location, how many children: My birth name is Scorviana (pronounce Score-Fi-Anna, as is pronouncing Anna in Russian) and my short name is Phio (which I most well known. Because it's shorter and I always had trouble with people pronouncing my other name). I live in Perth since 2002...the life before that was in Jakarta. I have 2 beautiful children, Prince CJ who will turn 5 in boxing day and Princess SA who is 17 months and starting toilet training.
  • How did you find Minti: A friend of mine from playgroup and also member of Minti introduced this parenting site. So, I checked it out and got attached to it ever since. I shall Thanks her for that.
  • What's your favorite thing or feature at Minti: It's pretty much a lot. I like Latest Activity. It shows me what's happening in Minti, I could read about new inputs from member's blogs or articles. I also like the way each members can communicate freely, it's like we enter a friendly and safe community.
  • What's your favorite thing about being a parent: It's hard question. I can say, since first time I knew that I was positively pregnant I had this amazing feeling that you can't describe in words. It felt like you're on top of the world. Continued with first ultrasound where I looked this tiny dot (fetus), first kicking in the tummy, gave birth with first baby cry, first breastfeeding, first smile, first walk, first word, etc, etc. Every single moment is a treasure. I always wanted to be a mother, so by having those experiences 'twice' was increadible. Watching my children growing up in safe, happy and healthy environment, it makes everything complete.
  • What has been your biggest parenting challenge: I've devoted myself to be a mother, I've put away most of my individual egos.....But at the end I'm only human who could loose control. My biggest challenge is compressing my anger (mind you I'm not an angry person, but we do get angry sometime) in front of your children. I don't want my childrend to be affraid of me because they see me when I get really upset. Luckily, so far I'm pretty good with it. When I lost control, I would sat down and talk to them and said sorry. Most of the time...I would just take a deep breath and talk about it later with an adult...who is my loving husband.
  • What's the best parenting advice you've ever gotten from someone: My mom, a mother of 9, gave me lots of tip. Most important is 'Accept and Enjoy'. Meaning, Accepting that you are a parent now and Enjoy what you have. Things will not go smooth if you're not enjoying them. Luckily, I'm enjoying my parenting ride....every single second.

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MumKim
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | MumKim
congratulations on being the featured member
Hi Phio
Congratulations on being the featured member. It is nice to learn more about you. I am curious, how did you come to have a Russian name living in Jakarta. I know Indonesia has a lot of Dutch influence as a result of the invasion/colonisation (My mum took us to Jakarta and all around Java for a month in 1981).cheers Kim


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      wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | wildrose
congratulations on being the featured member
Well it's not Russian name, just want to show how to prounouce the 'ana' bid. Most people prounouced my full name 'score-fa-nee-aa' or 'score-vienna'. It actually from the star sign, Scorpio. My sister said she pick Scor + viana as full name and change 'pio' to Phio as my nick name.


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           MumKim
October 2006 | MumKim
congratulations on being the featured member
Named after the sign of Scorpio. Does this mean you have a birthday coming up in the next few weeks? My husband is a scorpio, he always warns me about the sting in the tail.


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                wildrose
October 2006 | wildrose
congratulations on being the featured member
The sting on the tail....hhmmm maybe, but I'm basically very quiet person...but like one said, don't wake up the beast... LOL. My birthday...yup...in few weeks time and hubby will take a day off. isn''t he nice??


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ollie71
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | ollie71
It sure was nice to get to know you much more.

I know we have to protect ourselves these days over the net.

It's nice to hear about your background.  You can truthfully say you are multicultural.  Congradulations on being featured.

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      wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | wildrose
It sure was nice to get to know you much more.
Yes, I'm multicultural...I grew up in multicultural life too.


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TheMentorMom
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | TheMentorMom
Congrats
Congrats on being the featured member Phio!  Sorry I'm a bit late in commenting.    Great answers!  Nine siblings.  Are you close?  Your mom sounds like a wise woman.  Again, congrats.  You are an important part of the minti community giving sage advice and insightful comments.  I'm sure glad you are here.


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      wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | wildrose
Congrats
talking about big family, yeah we're reasonably close to each other, I think that's how we've been brought up with to be close and look after each other. But you will also expect to have some conflicts. aren't they part of life? LOL


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hrs2004
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | hrs2004
Congratulations
Good choice for another featured member - well deserved. I enjoyed reading your answers and your insightful comments. keep up the good work!


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      hrs2004
4.50 (Excellent) | October 2006 | hrs2004
Congratulations
Oh, and forgot to add that I think your full name is beautiful.


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           wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | wildrose
Congratulations
Thanks. I always like to have different name, at least when someone called out I knew that's me not somebody else with same name. LOL.


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ClayCook
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | ClayCook
What a great example
you sound like an amazing mother!
I love the Accept and Enjoy :) ... it's a lot like "be in the moment now, stop worrying about the past or the future"... i am starting to get the hang of this and really enjoy the present


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      wildrose
4.38 (Good) | September 2006 | wildrose
Re: What a great example
Thanks. But I don't think I'm that amazing. I'm sure lots of mother out there who are much better than myself.
Re: Accept and Enjoy..... well you will never get enough and happy of anything if you don't accept what you have and enjoy them. I'm glad you have the hang of it now. Lot of people who forget about it. I knew some close family member who does.


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tinker79
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | tinker79
wow way to go!
That is so cool!  I agree every single first  moment is a treasure in it's self!  Congrats!!!


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      wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | wildrose
wow way to go!
Glad you feel the same way. It's a treasure in mind and heart that no one could steal from you.


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | Jessgore
Congratulations...

Well done... Congratulations. That was great advice from your mum.. Accept and Enjoy... Do you mind if I use it???

Once again congratulations.....



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      wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | wildrose
Congratulations...
Thanks and sure you can use it. I think it worths and true.


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questirians
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | questirians
Congrats

Well said! Like your parenting advice that you have gotten. Accept and enjoy is the truth!!

Again Congrats!!!



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      wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | wildrose
Congrats
It is true. We won't be happy if we don't accept and enjoy our life.


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Izzy
4.63 (Excellent) | September 2006 | Izzy
Featured Member: Wildrose

Congrats on being the latest featured member. You absolutely deserve it. 

It's a challenge for me too to keep anger in check so as not to scare my son. Sometimes he isn't even the cause of my anger and I still grumble around the house. I will really have to work on that too.

Great answers!



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      wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | wildrose
Featured Member: Wildrose
Thank you.


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mcm
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | mcm
Wildrose
Wildrose, how wise are you/ I enjoyed reading this - well done on being minti featured member. Thanks, you're great.


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      wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | wildrose
Wildrose
Thank you.


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