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i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

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well i woke up this morning and for the first time in a long time i suddenly thought wtf have i been crying about? my life ROCKS!

im healthy, i have great kids that im doing a bloody good job of raising even though i have some hard times, all my clothes fit or are too big now haha and i tried on a dress i bought years ago that i LOVE and it was too big haha

i get sad sometimes coz im a bit isolated, alot of my friends are interstate and then my mates here work full time so i only see them weekends and alot of my other mates are still in party mode so we dont see each other alot now due to me being with tobias. but u know what? i have awsome mates! im so lucky!

my children make me smile and learn new things everyday that im lucky enough to be able to be a part of who cares who they DONT see?

so what if im single! ive had alot of offers i just dont think im suited to the men that are interested right now i counted up and its over 15 in five months that have pursued me lol so that was a boost to my self esteem! when i find someone that i think is right i will know i didnt lower my standards and that they are the right guy for myself and the kids, i wont end up stuck unhappy again.

my boobs shrank thank god! ive been an f cup for awhile now and actual REAL tops fit me properly now and im sure i could mange to buy a bra that isnt part parachute and isnt covered in a mountain of lace (hate lace!)

i have an excellent family that piss me off weekly but that love me beyond imagination lol

im not in debt , not sick, my kids are happy and i look awsum haha

yeah things have been hard but i am going to brush myself off count it all as a learning experience and get on with my life that will be better than i ever wouldve dreamed if i was still with a person who only thinks of himself.

il b angry awhile longer but i know my life is good and il just listen to alanis if i get pissed off hah!

second DNA  test next week i think i know the results lol i have a feeling they will be the same as last time dont you? when thats done and dusted i will smile walking away knowing my life is going forward to new places with my adorable kids ....

thanks to my online mates for being there

xxxnat

 

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HarrisonsMommy
September 1st | HarrisonsMommy
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

I don't know where i was when you wrote this blog Nat but you have made me cry today.  i love you chick and think you have so got your head screwed on right.  thanks for being focused.

xxoo-ang



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cheekymonkeys
August 29th | cheekymonkeys
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

Hey there  thought i would just drop on by and have a little read. You are a great parent and who cares if he denies the child he is the one losing not you. It sounds like you are better off with him out of your life anyway by reading this. Keep going up hill never go down and dont let anyone let you feel inferior at any stage. If they do tell them they are jealous that you have such a great single life. Single life is the best as my friends say you have male friends but with benefits lol lolol

Keep up the good work



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cathbusymum
August 24th | cathbusymum
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

 Not only do ya rock Nat but I reckon you're finding ya MOJO!! Always good to have LOL Give yourself the credit you deserve mate!! It's all up from here!!

Cath xxoo

you rock head bobbing cat



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      winja
August 24th | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

hehh thanks mate! what was that!? i lost my mojo?

DAMMIT! i shall collect it up and fill a keg and keep it in the corner of the room under lock and key from this day forward!

im climbing matey im climbing and its lookin good from up here il keep going and see how far i can reach.

thanks so much a lol is the recipe to good health!

xxxnat



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Marglr
August 24th | Marglr
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

Loved reading this...yes you do ROCK!!!  Quite the list you have going there and it's just the beginning.  You are making a great life for you and your beautiful kiddies! You go Girl!!  You don't just rock you seriously rock!



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      winja
August 24th | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

thanks marg that means alot more to me than you know...

you and janice are my inpirations, when i grow up i wanna be like u guys and have your beautiful spirits and attitudes :)

im workin on it matey! im workin! and its gettin better by the day!

xxxnat



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Amerlinwinga
August 23rd | Amerlinwinga
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

Yes you ROCK!!!! But i rock more lol..... You are the best and you deserve the best so yes dont take second best.

DNA is going to be the same lol, but some are just thick, you know what i mean lol

You do look good and i wish you lived closer,  i have the perfect men for you lol....Actually don't need them haha.

Boobies go good just remember that haha.

Love you heaps

Tee



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      winja
August 24th | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

oh yes! theres never been any doubt that you indeed rock the best lol thats indisputable really and no1 would argue that fact even armed with google!

 



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toosh
August 22nd | toosh
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

There's my totally awesome chicky! You so totally do ROCK...and so do I for that matter, ROFL! Can you shrink my boobies too please? HAHA!

xxoo



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      winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

NO YOU ROCK THE BIGGEST! damn i konw why u have to live so far out of the way tassie couldnt handle all the rocking!

heheh

im not sure hubby would appreiciate me helping you shrink.....hehe

xxxnat



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emmie
August 22nd | emmie
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You go girl you ay well be single etc but you are happy and have a beautiful family that makwe you happy and thats what counts. Of course the DNA  is going to be the same as the 1st the sooner he realises it the better he is missin gout on 1 gorgeous little boy xxx



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      winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

hey chook

im single because i CHOOSE to be and not because i HAVE to be and i think thats what makes the difference, i could end up miserable with someone not  right for me or i could stay single and wait for the right guy to come along, il take the latter!

my kids are awsum and yeah dna will b fine im not worried bout that lol

i doubt he will ever work it out coz hes to stupid and selfish and he didnt inhererit the rocking gene and tobias did lol

his loss screw him

xxxnat



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missnickley
August 22nd | missnickley
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

Thats right you do. And next time you are feeling down come back here and read it and remember how spectacular you are!
MySpace and Orkut You Rock Glitter Graphic - 3



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      winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

oh crap! i rocked your socks off!lol

i liked writing this i lied reading it and i loved commenting haha

damn good blog lol i rock!

your rock too! shit! socks are off!

xxxnat



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nabutters
August 21st | nabutters
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

that is the way to think!!!!!!!!!! Good for you!! life is like a roller coaster,full of ups and downs.....you will be ok,remember your hot!! hehehee....this blog was good to read...thanks hunny...

love na xxx



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      winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

haha thanks matey the blog made me laugh while i was writing it im glad u liked it too

i can handle ups and downs hehehe

ha must be hard for sum ppl havin us rock so much, theres alot of rocking on my page right now!



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mumof2b
August 21st | mumof2b
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

Well I'm glad the old Nat is back............because you're right......YOU DO ROCK!!!!!!

Sh*t happens but it doesn't last, as long as we don't let it and you're just too stubborn for that Good luck with the sperm donor, and of course it's gonna be the same result, he's just a looser who is missing out on something amazing.

You Rock, your kid's Rock and well........I Rock !!!!!!!!

xxxx



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      winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

thanks chooka

shit has been ongoing and i thought id find a plug for it! i rolled a guy in dog poo once..... you listened :)

il win win win in court and he will look stupid and realise hes screwed himself over AFTERWARDS lol

why bother with stupid ppl they have no idea what your talking about

of course YOU rock EVERYONE knows that lol pfft it should be on the news daily so ppl dont forget!

xxxnat



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Ravenheart
August 21st | Ravenheart
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

dont forget you know me? thats an honour lol pmsl... hahahahaha

yes u do rock



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      winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

of course! you are one of my awsum friends that rock!

your rock my lil puzzler! heheh lets dance the robot!

xxxnat



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           Ravenheart
August 22nd | Ravenheart
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

pmsl, yea we can when i save up n get my ass down there, we can dance the robot all night long. lol ;)



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                winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol raven

hehe it will be the drunken time warp for you my friend! and il dance thriller for you coz i just plain rock



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llmunchkin
August 21st | llmunchkin
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

YAY... I knew you would.  Everyone has down moments, but your ability to see the good things in life is what keeps you floating.  I became your friend because I admired your stubborn, independent streak; your attitude to life, your intelligence and your eagerness to improve your lot in life, (along with that of others).  Get on with being the real YOU, because the real YOU rocks! xox



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      winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

i can see the light my friend lol and its fuckin bright!

luicat your comment made my day, i mean that as soppy and bullshit as it sounds. that IS me il make sure i come back for good

xxxnatcat



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Jessgore
August 21st | Jessgore
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

Positive thoughts cause positive things to happen...

We all have our ups and downs, but we all rock... :) We just got to see the good in the bad...

I often have days like that, but you know what... Always think positive... And if something crap comes along, my motto is "THIS CAN'T LAST FOREVER."

Way to go.. xxx



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      winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

i think everyone here rocks lol

im seeing some good now, if everything hadnt happened this year i still wouldnt know what i wanted in life and in a man and now i do.

im loving your motto and it is going on my fridge and maybe a tshirt and perhaps even tattoed behind my eyelids lol

xxnat



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Domestic-warrior
August 21st | Domestic-warrior
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

So you just worked that out eh?...Lol....i'm sure plenty of people could have told you that over and over (like those 15 guys!), but sometimes things like this just dawn on us for whatever reason.  I think you are doing a great job and it sounds like your life does ROCK!!

We often get bogged down now and again but it it great when we can come out of it and think  my kids rock, i rock and my life rocks!!!!  Good on you!! xox



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      winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

haha yep i worked it out and told the bloody world

had enough of beingt eh meek lil mouse and ploddinga round my house being sad and feeling liek im not good enough

fuck it! im awsum and if u cant work that out then un are too stupid to be my friend hahah

im glad u feel the same because YOU ROCK and we are going to an island with our lil lounge buddys!

xxxnat



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August88
August 21st | August88
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

Good on ya Nat. Glad you worked that out and not a moment later. You rock! When time gets tough I listen to the hard chicks too, Alanis, Pink, Melissa Etheridge. You know the girls that will tell them blokes to stick it and take no shit! When I get really down I take a deep breath and look around me at what I have got too. Doesn't seem so bad so keep those positive vibes going and lets spread them around. Of course the results were conclusive the last time so you know it already. Hope he steps up and helps his son.



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      winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

oh mate the angry girl music is the BEST my friend sent me a list to download and sing along to  of her top 10 angry chick songs for empowerment lol

i AM the girl who takes no shit or i was and am trying to resusitate her lol

i spread them everywhere today with my narsisistic blog and my general attitude of rockyness haha

yeah 99.99 lol i spose coz it didnt say 100 hes too stupid to work it out... he wont ever help his son on his own but in my own way child support is going to work a few things out for him so he doesnt have a choice

why fuck someone over when they do it to themselves?

xxxnat



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natelz1
August 21st | natelz1
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

Go you!@ Loving the attitude hunny! Your life is sounding pretty dam appealing?? wanna swap?? LOL  your doing fantatsic hunny xxx



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      winja
August 22nd | winja
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

hey matey thanks alot!

u know what coz my attitude rocked my day friggin rocked haha  good to be me!

xxxnat



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ellamia
August 21st | ellamia
Re: i think i finally worked it out i ROCK lol

Thats soo fantastic. you rock your a loyal friend to everyone. You are a great mother and you do a fantastic job with them. Who cares if your single. There are alot of single mums out there. I might join ya LOL hahaha. jk Im quite happily married :). Your life is awsome dont you worry.

Omg a second DNA test gees.

I hope he pays for tobi.

Love ya loads

Kell

xoxox



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