I watched SuperNanny with my wife and daughter last night. My daughter had an angry expression on her face the entire way through. I wasn't quite sure what she didn't like! It's amazing how each episode is very similar from the next. Almost the same recipe. I'm not taking anything away from her. She is very good at training parents. She shows them what they are doing wrong, models correct behavior, teaches to see things differently, explored emotional blockages, problems in the mum-dad relationship. It almost always amazing. But it also shows that there are a tips that work in lots of different situations. I was also impressed how she surfaced the mothers unconscious feelings of guilt towards her youngest child that was a problem birth. Often unconscious things hide behind the scenes impacting on our behaviour, no matter how much we try to hide it. Seeing ghosts is a common problem for parent-child relationships, and relationships in general. Only by confronting ghosts, can we stop their influence on our behaviour and the quality of our relationships.