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Getting babies and toddlers to sleep

ClayCook by ClayCook Minti Founder(February 2006) (rank 29th)
The best advice I can give from personal experience with babies and sleeping is to follow a routine. From day one we implemented a routine and Codi has been an amazing sleeper.

Critical to the routine is a few key items...
  • Full stomach. We make sure
    he has a full dinner so he is content and will not get hungry at night.
  • Bath before bed. Baths are very soothing before bed. We always finish his bath just 10 minutes before he is due to go to sleep.
  • Pacifier (dummy). Some people do not like pacifiers. We do, we find he feels comfortable with a pacifier at night. Actually we normally give him more than one in his cot/crib.
  • Nice and warm. Codi always sleeps in a grow bag, which is like a little baby sleeping bag.
  • A sleep cue. We have a toy that hangs on the side of his crib. When it is time for him to sleep we pull the cord on the toy animals and it makes a soft lullaby. It plays for about 2 minutes and he knows this signals it is time for his night time sleep.
  • We also used controlled crying early on. We no longer need to, however initially we would wait 10 mins and then resettle, then 15 mins, then resettle, then 20 mins, and then 30 mins thereafter. After a week or so of controlled crying technique he would only need to be resettled once or twice, and then it wasn't long before he didnt need to be resettled at all. I suggest however that you use your watch to count/measure the time... a crying baby can make you feel as though you have been waiting 15 minutes when you may have only waited 60 seconds!
I have written an article on our full routine here, however the most important aspects for a good nights sleep are above.
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mummy17
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2008 | mummy17
Re: Getting babies and toddlers to sleep

 

very good advice at the right time for me



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lillkatheryn
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2007 | lillkatheryn
Re: Getting babies and toddlers to sleep

Very nice, I've done all those things and my baby sleep sver nice at night, give or take a few hiccups!  One to #2 and hope he is the same.



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emmie
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2007 | emmie
Re: Getting babies and toddlers to sleep

great advice clay i have always had a routine with chloe

cheers



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TiggerGirl
5.00 (Excellent) | July 2007 | TiggerGirl
Re: Getting babies and toddlers to sleep
the only problem i have found with my daughter in giving her a bath before bed time, is that it wakes her up and goes all lively, so i have to give her a bath or shower in the mornings.


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merlin0903
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | merlin0903
Re: Getting babies and toddlers to sleep
great advice clay, if there was no routine in our house i think that all hell would get loose, it is the only way to do things and that way the child knows what is happening and that it is going to happen at that time each day.


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rachaelt
5.00 (Excellent) | May 2007 | rachaelt
Great info but need abit more help!!

My son is 16 months old he has been sleeping on and off with us and in his cot putting himself to sleep 50 % of the time. He was a premmie and was sick a lot so we did not try controlled cring. Now he is older and better i will try it because there has to be a better way than just tossing the coin from one night to the next. WISH ME LUCK!!!



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madmelsBACK
5.00 (Excellent) | April 2007 | madmelsBACK
Sleeping babies
Hehe well written. I remember when Jaidan used to go to bed with 5 dummies on his dummy clip...


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youngmumof2
5.00 (Excellent) | March 2007 | youngmumof2
Controlled crying
Both our kids were only having 1 bottle a night just before they turned 3 months. So when they turned 3 months we used control crying. Worked a treat for us. Iesha took 2 nights to get it and Julius took 1 night. All happy sleepers ever since. Especially mum and dad. LOL


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MargretaZ
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | MargretaZ
Getting babies and toddlers to sleep.
 I always found that too many people put their kids to bed and insist on dead quiet till they fall asleep. I always made sure that every day noises like the radio or tv were on, if they get used to the noises, nothing stops them from sleeping when they want to. Of course, they have to want to sleep, or you will have to try all the alternatives like rocking chairs, lullabies etc.


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Wendigo
5.00 (Excellent) | February 2007 | Wendigo
Seems like forever...
since i last had any problems with getting babies to sleep, but I used all the same methods and they worked wonders.  The only problem I ever had was if bubs hadn't gotten rid of all the wind from having the full belly before falling asleep.


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ShellyT
5.00 (Excellent) | December 2006 | ShellyT
routine's
I've done this with my child also and i love to have a set routine for my daughter. I find it makes her happier being in a routine.


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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | September 2006 | Jessgore
This is very good advice....
I wish I had started that from day one.. It was a bit hard with my mother there, she just wanted to hold him all the time.. And being that she was only going to see him for three weeks and we did not know when she was going to see him again, I let her have as much time with him as she wanted... Hmmm I will try the controlled sleeping on the next baby.....


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helen-makeup
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | helen-makeup
baby sleeping
I agree with the routine, but I certainly believe in establishing breastfeeding and reading to babies.  It will give them a love of books for life.


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tracey
4.09 (Good) | May 2006 | tracey
a good night's sleep

There are so many conflicting ideas/methods/theories about the "right way" to get your baby to sleep. I find it fascinating.  I am a firm beleiver that kids can and will have healthy sleep habits if parents are willing to stick to rituals, routines, and consistancy. I'm with Clay and Rachel...do the work early (yes, it can be work) and you'll have a good sleeper. I have 2.



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      ClayCook
3.79 (Good) | May 2006 | ClayCook
Re: a good night's sleep
Thanks Tracey - you summed it up very well :)
"stick to rituals, routines, and consistency"


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Anonymous Member
3.83 (Good) | April 2006 | anonymous  
Going to try this
I have a 2 1/2 yr old and a 14 month old. I will try this method. Right now I just let them cry themselves to sleep. I couldn't figure out how else to do do it. We would share a king size bed. They are just to big now. They require their own space now. I hope this works. It is thier 6 night. I will cross my fingers.
;)
Mom of Cole & Kyle


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      ClayCook
3.00 (Average) | April 2006 | ClayCook
Re: Going to try this
I am guessing you are referring to the controlled crying part? or all of it (ie: bath, full stomach etc)?

Either way.... I hope it works for you as it does/did for us.

Would love to hear how you got on...


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Anonymous Member
2.65 (Average) | March 2006 | anonymous  
this is diffcult
my child never goes to sleep.


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      rachelcook
3.37 (Average) | March 2006 | rachelcook
Re: this is diffcult
what are you experiencing?


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      ClayCook
3.05 (Average) | March 2006 | ClayCook
Re: this is diffcult
more information would be good on what you are experiencing?


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rachelcook
3.83 (Good) | March 2006 | rachelcook
Sleeping baby
great article, really great it's to the point!! also would have ranked it higher if you could have also mentioned what earlier techniques you used, eg. teching to sleep method and controlled crying. Did you use these methods initially?


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      ClayCook
3.19 (Average) | February 2006 | ClayCook
Re: Sleeping baby
Good comments. Yes (as you well know) we did use controlled crying. I will add :)


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           Jennacarna
December 2007 | Jennacarna
Re: Sleeping baby
I hope it's not too late to start this with a 7 month old... I tried the crying it out method but his cries turned inot screaming and I COULDN'T do it anymore... I'll try again... it's gonna be a very hard week...


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           rachelcook
3.25 (Average) | February 2006 | rachelcook
Re: Sleeping baby
in the note section the grammar needs attention. Too much information for a note.


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                ClayCook
2.76 (Average) | February 2006 | ClayCook
Re: Sleeping baby
Your probably right. I will try fix later.


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                     ClayCook
3.26 (Average) | March 2006 | ClayCook
Re: Sleeping baby
I have ammended the article now...
1. Removed the "Note" section and made it the last bullet point.
2. Removed a photo so the page format looks better.
Hope you enjoy it more now :)


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      ClayCook
2.88 (Average) | March 2006 | ClayCook
Re: Sleeping baby
I have added the earlier (controlled crying techniques). Hope you find time to reconsider your vote.


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Anonymous Member
2.54 (Average) | March 2006 | anonymous  
trauma for your child
Letting your child cry him/herself to sleep is unhealthy and I firmly disagree with it. We co-sleep with our children and our 10 month old is the healthiest and happiest baby you will find.

I guess it is a matter of what you are willing to sacrafice for your own needs. I need my children to be happy and feel love and nurturing and not abandoned and alone.


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      ClayCook
3.17 (Average) | March 2006 | ClayCook
Re: trauma for your child
I certainly agree with you that the all children need to feel loved and not abandoned.

However, I myself am not a fan of co-sleeping. I know parents who still sleep with their children who are 7 years old. I also think it increases the chances of SIDS.

However I respect that everyone is different.

By the way: The controlled crying for us was only a week long process.


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