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Monitoring Childrens Internet

tigger6161 by tigger6161 Standing(October 2008) (rank 500+)

Hey All.

Well recently my 14 year old sister has had some issues on the popular site Facebook, and i thought i should raise parents awareness of this kind of behaviour on popular sites such as myspace and facebook.

As even if your profile is set to private

on these sites you can still be messaged by other people and your profile picture seen, and it is easy for people to target young people.

My sister has had many scammers emailing her, asking for money, men from russia telling her how beautiful she is, how sometimes life isn't fair blah blah blah and roped her into being friends with them only then to be as subtle as possible and start talking sexual with her, and she is only 14.

When it got to the stage of her being accually scared, and not understanding what he was talking about as when she didn't cooperate he started to abuse her and use things she told him against her did my 14yo sister accually let mum know.

It can be so easy for people to get into our teenagers heads over the internet and i really think parents need to be more aware and crack down on this as it opens our children to hurt.

Anyways thats jsut my piece.

Cheers

 

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Kellzacar
November 2008 | Kellzacar
Re: Monitoring Childrens Internet

Hi there,

Thanks so much for sharing this with us all . . . I refuse to allow my 9 yr -old to have a Facebook account for this very reason, in fact when she is on the internet I am always in the same room with her as I am her parent and therefore it is my job to make sure she is safe . .  My eldest who is 17 has a mtspace account but will not have a facebook account as she knows just how ealsily you can get dragged in. With her myspace account she only talks to her actual friends, not stangers . . .

Well done on shing this  . . . I hope your sister is doing okay now and hopefully she has learned something and can now move on.

Cheers Kellz



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cazza
October 2008 | cazza
Re: Monitoring Childrens Internet

Excellent advice..

xx cazza



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emmie
October 2008 | emmie
Re: Monitoring Childrens Internet

greT ADVICE MY DAUGHTER IS  only 5 but iwatch her every move online kids need to br watched very closely online you never know what they are going to find xxxx



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griz
October 2008 | griz
Re: Monitoring Childrens Internet

thank you for writing this. This is one of my huge concerns I have with the interenet. It is so easy for kids to withdraw into the world of technology.

I dont have any teenage daughters only sons. My oldest son is always online, on facebook and youtube and he seems to have addictive behaviour towards it. It really worries me. Also some of the things kids right on their msn personal message. And with msn my boys have been targeted by bitchy girls who have just gotten their email address through other people and added them. Then they have sent them nasty messages, putting them down really. Another girl had on her msn personal message a very nasty statement about another girl she didn't like. I told my son to stop talking to her, you dont need friends like that.

The interenet can be a very valuable tool and it can also be a very dangerous and addictive activity for our children.

 



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