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Positive reinforcement

Overjoyed2008 by Overjoyed2008 In Nappies(November 19th) (rank 500+)

Even young children manage to construct negative thoughts in their young minds.

To recognise this is simply by listening to them.

My results has been to simply reverse the phrases they use.

"I cannot read" turns into "I can read".

And while we say

it, it's also helpful to write it down and have the children read those very words.

This simplicity can be applied to alot of things.

For example, if there are signs of learning difficulties, do not make a big issue out of them as a parent to the child.

Observe where you think the challenge is, and then find positive ways of teaching more of those elements (especially if it is numbers and letters)

Then have the child repeat several times a day " I learn with ease" or "learning is easy for me"

If you as a parent also adopt the phrase "my children learn with ease" and see and feel this within yourself, your results will be tremendous.

This will take a certain amount of dedication in the beginning, as not only are you in the process of turning your childs mind to positive, you are doing the same for yourself.

Good luck

Overjoyed 2008

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Izzy
November 19th | Izzy
Re: Positive reinforcement

I agree with what's been said. If a child gets used to doing well because of positive thinking/self-talk, the child might feel like a failure on extremely difficult tasks. Perhaps in addition to positive thinking, we can add that the child's best effort is just as good, if not better when desired result is not attained.



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exquisite-flower
November 19th | exquisite-flower
Re: Positive reinforcement

There is a degree of truth in what you have written here, thinking positively and then professing those positive thoughts can certainly change things for the better.  However it is also important to be realistic and accept the limitations on any given circumstance as well, because on the occasions that positive thinking/speaking does not produce the expected result the opposite effect can occur.

Peace
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MonkeyDad
November 19th | MonkeyDad
Re: Positive reinforcement

There is definitely something great here. Positive self-talk is a great skill to learn since most people do the opposite. But I think it's important not to over simplify this issue in cases where there may be learning disabilities present.



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