Hi my name is Lauren and i an 14 my boyfriend is 15. Sometimes he smoks( weed ) and when he dose and we have sex he dose not want 2 use a condom . But when he is not high he wants to use a condom. What should i

Firstly when you smoke weed your inhabitions go

in other words you just go with the flow, feel all mellow and don't care about consiquenses.  Are you smoking it too? if not then you be the voice of reason and say not without a condom!! when he isn't smoking he's being level headed so follow this example.

Enjoy being 14 while your 14 and don't get stuck with an unexpected pregnancy or infection, just be young and by all means love each other but be sensible too. I'm going to stick my neck out here as your under age i lost my virginity with my best friend when i was 16 and yes of course it is more intermate without a condom but there are so many different condoms out there now that are just as good as not having one and safer. The thing is darling even though you feel grown up you are still only 14 and 15 and your views, life and personalities wil change with age trust me i thought i knew exactly what i felt and what i wanted at 14 but the way i think now is so different so don't go making a huge mistake now that you can't revrse it really isn't worth it, so either be strong and say no condom no sex or stay away from him when he's not thinkinhg straight come on us girls are the more powerful species so use your head and say no ta there are other things you can do than full sex isn't there.

Be strong think with your head not your heart and remind him of what he said when he's not stoned