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Bottlefeeding vs Breast feeding

tashaann by tashaann Crawling(November 2008) (rank 500+)

When I had my first child he latched on no worries and then a few hours later he just wouldnt latch on again, I had cracked and sore nipples and was in alot of pain, but yet the doctors and nurses were trying to force me to breastfeed. After the

3rd day of my baby boy crying andme crying and getting no sleep I just had to give him the formula at the hospital, I left the hospital feeling really bad and wondering why everyone was judging me for not breast feeding as much as i had really tried and wanted to. I got home and tried a nipple shield and this still did not work so I borrowed a expressing machine and pumped milk for 2 months until my milk just started to dry up. This was not my fault, he put on wieght and was growing like any child his age wether breast feed or not and he is now a happy little 2 year old with enough energy to share with everyone

With my second baby she latched on no worries as well and the first day she seemed to be doing just fine and then all went haywire, the same thiing started to happen but this time i had the guts to say i dont want to be feeling like the worst mother in the world and i want my baby to be happy as well as my self be happy so she went straight to formula. she was putting on weight and growing really well and now she is 10 months old and is actually a little bigger then some of her friends her age.

What im trying to get out there is no matter wether you breastfeed or not you are NOT the worst mother in the world and dont worry about people judging you because its not their life its yours, you hear about breastfeeding all the time but nothing about bottle feeding which in my opinion is ridiculous.

So when someone asks you is your baby breast fed or bottle fed be proud to say my child is BOTTLE fed !!!!!

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rxg1970
December 2008 | rxg1970
Re: Bottlefeeding vs Breast feeding

I was able to breastfeed for 3 1/2 months without too many problems.  The first six weeks or so were great however I found that when I went on the mini pill (which is not supposed to affect milk supply) it did seem to affect my supply.  Bubs slowly got fussier and fussier at the breast and I ended up introducing a supplemental formula feed (i was still putting her to the breast 5-6 times a day).  One day she just refused to breastfeed altogether and I switched to formula feeds with no guilt at all.  What I did notice was that when I stopped (and it was quite a sudden stop) I had no breast discomfort or leakage at all so I suspect my milk production had all but ceased anyway (probably why she was gettng so frustrated with trying to breastfeeding).  She's happy and healthy and that's all that matters. 



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kati82
November 2008 | kati82
Re: Bottlefeeding vs Breast feeding

I have three children and have only ever been able to breast feed all of them up until the 6 week mark as my milk always turns to water basically and does not satisfy them.

With my new bub who is 3 months now my district nurse came for her visit when he was 8 weeks old and i was bottle feeding him she proceeded to give me a huge lecture and tried to persuade me to go back to the breast . I told her i cant he is not getting enough nutrients and is always hungry which he was. she did not believe me and said i was taking the easy way out. So to prove my point i got out my breastpump and expressed my milk right there in front of her and as i did this she watched in amazement because what was coming out was clear and i had only been stopped for 2 days. So i said to her well ill keep feeding him this stuff will i and he wont grow sleep or ever be satisfied. She then agreed that bottle is better in my situation. What i dont understand is why the nurses and midwives are so determined to keep the breast feeding going but when you know your child isnt getting enough or it is so painful and stressful to keep going and so many women end up with post natal depression through trying why do they push it so much. All my children have grown up healthy and if formula was no good for children they woudnt sell it as much as i would have loced to keep breast feeding ( its cheaper and less hassle with bottles) i just couldnt keep feeding my children the stuff that i was producing.

So yes I am Proud to say my kids were bottle fed and my baby is as healthy as any breast fed baby you see

 



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Juzzy
November 2008 | Juzzy
Re: Bottlefeeding vs Breast feeding

Hi great advice.

I happily breast fed my first born for 10 months but with my second i could only breast feed for 2 weeks before mastitus dried up my milk. I think that everyone is entitled to feed their children the way they are comfortable with and people just need to learn to mind their own business.

I think one of the most rude question someone can ask is if your child is bottle or breast fed. How is that question going to change their life. Fair enough if you are friends with the person asking but i have had people in the shopping centre asking if my baby is bottle or breast fed.

Juzzy xoxox



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nabutters
November 2008 | nabutters
Re: Bottlefeeding vs Breast feeding

i vreast fed my little one till she was 17mths old.....i on a number of times was going to throw it all in and bottle feed....

naomi xx



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neets
November 2008 | neets
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I bottle fed Aaron started breast feeding but didnt have enough milk, now with Katelyn I have breast fed for 7 months and I have enough milk to keep going, both my kids are happy and healthy and that is all that should matter.

Great advice.



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llmunchkin
November 2008 | llmunchkin
Re: Bottlefeeding vs Breast feeding

I think that feed is the key word here... As long as you are feeding your child the healthiest option that you can, and your child is happy, growing and strong, then you are doing a great job.



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lonely28
November 2008 | lonely28
Re: Bottlefeeding vs Breast feeding

Well I'm currently expecting bub's no 2 and I am proud bottle mum of 1 so far. Yep, mo 2 will be bottle fed as well. This is my choice but this time I have had severly dry, cracked and bleeding nipples throughout the pregnancy. My doctor does not think it's such a crash hot idea for me to breastfeed. Believe me, I have tried everything to get rid of it but to no avail. So yep, I AM PROUD BOTTLE FEEDING MUM!!! Like the saying, a happy mum equals a happy bub's.

fi xoxxo



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Fairyfloss
November 2008 | Fairyfloss
Re: Bottlefeeding vs Breast feeding

Good for you for trying to b/f, even better that you made the best decision for you and your bub's. I think we all do what we can for our babies and for that we all need a big thumbs up.... Thanx for sharing

Flossie



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Ravenheart
November 2008 | Ravenheart
Re: Bottlefeeding vs Breast feeding

Im a proud breastfeeding mum, fed all 3 of my kids untill about 1yr old. I dont judge mums who chose to bottle feed, or have no choice becasue they can't breastfeed. I think the most important thing you can give a child is LOVE and as long as their fed (either way) there shouldn't be a problem.

Here on minti I think there is equal attention to bottle and breast feeds.

xoxo



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      tashaann
November 2008 | tashaann
Re: Bottlefeeding vs Breast feeding

yeh i would have to agree with you that minti does have equal information on breast feeding and bottle feeding, where as other sites dont, and some days i still wish i could have breast fed but like you said all that matters is they have lots of love and they will be happy and healthy. and thats why my 2 children get a lot of

Tasha xoxo



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