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Bottlefeeding vs Breast feeding |
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by tashaann (November 2008) (rank 500+) |
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When I had my first child he latched on no worries and then a few hours later he just wouldnt latch on again, I had cracked and sore nipples and was in alot of pain, but yet the doctors and nurses were trying to force me to breastfeed. After the
3rd day of my baby boy crying andme crying and getting no sleep I just had to give him the formula at the hospital, I left the hospital feeling really bad and wondering why everyone was judging me for not breast feeding as much as i had really tried and wanted to. I got home and tried a nipple shield and this still did not work so I borrowed a expressing machine and pumped milk for 2 months until my milk just started to dry up. This was not my fault, he put on wieght and was growing like any child his age wether breast feed or not and he is now a happy little 2 year old with enough energy to share with everyone
With my second baby she latched on no worries as well and the first day she seemed to be doing just fine and then all went haywire, the same thiing started to happen but this time i had the guts to say i dont want to be feeling like the worst mother in the world and i want my baby to be happy as well as my self be happy so she went straight to formula. she was putting on weight and growing really well and now she is 10 months old and is actually a little bigger then some of her friends her age.
What im trying to get out there is no matter wether you breastfeed or not you are NOT the worst mother in the world and dont worry about people judging you because its not their life its yours, you hear about breastfeeding all the time but nothing about bottle feeding which in my opinion is ridiculous.
So when someone asks you is your baby breast fed or bottle fed be proud to say my child is BOTTLE fed !!!!!