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birth control- IUD

BebeBuzz by BebeBuzz Speaking(August 2006) (rank 443rd)

My six week check up at the OBGYN after giving birth was fairly uneventful.  At the end of my appointment my doctor asked me if I had given any thought to the type of birth control I wanted to use going forward.  I told her that I had not really thought about it but just assumed that I would go back on the Pill.  She said that that was a fine option but that I should also consider an IUD (intrauterine device).  This, in her opinion, would be ideal choice for a busy mother of two.  I would not have to remember to take it everyday, like the Pill, and I could choose between a five year and ten year IUD. This means that I don’t have to think about it again for either five or ten years, depending on which one I decided to use.  My doctor said that if I decided to get pregnant again, all I had to do was make an appointment and have it removed. The best part was that there were really no side effects and that it was over 99% effective.  She said that the only side effects she’d seen were very mild bloating from 2 patients after the IUD was placed in the uterus. 

This sounded too good to be true so I asked her what the catch was.  I could not imagine why something this good, with no side effects, wouldn’t be the hottest new trend.  No one I knew was on it and the only thing I had heard about IUD’s was from my mother.  She said that she tried it after giving birth to my sister and it was really uncomfortable so she had it removed.  My doctor insisted that IUDs have come a long way since my mother had used one and that they were completely painless.  For those of you not familiar with what an IUD is, it is a t-shaped, plastic device inserted into the uterus by a health care professional. They prevent pregnancy by inhibiting fertilization of the egg. Although not entirely known, it is believed that the IUDs affect the way the sperm and egg move and/or affect the lining of the uterus to prevent implantation of the egg.  There are two kinds of IUDs: one that lasts for five years and one that lasts for ten.

The five year IUD is called Mirena.  It is coated with progesterone so it is supposed to make your period shorter and lighter.  The ten year IUD is called Paragard.  It is made with copper. It is marketed as the more convenient IUD because you do not have to replace it for 10 years and it is less expensive than the Mirena.  The downside is that you will be crampier and have longer periods.  My doctor said she would recommend the Mirena.  She said it is more popular because it makes everyone’s periods so short and light.

After reading the literature my doctor gave me about the IUDs I was really excited about getting one. It would be so easy and I would not have to think about birth control for five or ten years.  However, I still had a nagging reservation that it sounded too good to be true.  Nothing this good came without side effects.  I decided to then do some internet research of my own…

I found that common IUD side effects are:

·               Mood changes

·               Weight gain

·               Acne

·               Headaches

·               Breast tenderness

·               Pelvic pain

·               Cramping (copper IUD)

·               Increased bleeding during menstruation (copper IUD)

·               Nausea

Aside from the increased bleeding during menstruation, the IUD side effects sounded a lot like the parts of my pregnancy that I was more than happy to be done with!  I could not imagine voluntarily deciding to recreate these unpleasant side effects for five-ten years without a happy conclusion like a baby to make it all worth while.

Now the choice is obviously yours, but when the facts were put into prospective for me I decided that I was happy to be done with my pregnancy and I did not need to inflict those symptoms upon myself again, voluntarily.  The Pill is just fine for me!


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Jessi-Lynn-1982
July 2007 | Jessi-Lynn-1982
Re: birth control- IUD
I am sorry that you had such a horrible experience with the IUD. I is never a fun thing to go through when something inside you goes wrong to the point of surgery. But not all of them are bad experiences, I have had my IUD for 3 years now and I am very happy that I chose it. Every person gets different side effects, I have never experienced any cramping or pregnant like hormones. I am sorry your mom had an uncomfortable experience too. I just think the doctor/s who put these in you and your mother must not have been very good. My experience was about 10 minutes long, when my doctor was putting it in it just really felt like a paps test that you get once a year. I am very happy with my choice and I have had no problems with it either. I am so sorry your experience was not a happy one because the IUD really is a wonderful birth control.


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ssedgar
November 2006 | ssedgar
implanon
i have an implanon implant too, i fell pregnant twice on the pill, so thought this was a bettor option. I could only go on a mild strength pill as i have a really weak stomach and it obviously wasn't strong enough, but hey it gave me my gorgeous boys


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JadieLady
August 2006 | JadieLady
IUD

IUD always sonded scary, ever since i found out what they are! allyp, you poor thing! i cant imagine the pain you must have gone through, and the scariness of having to have an operation!

I am using the Implanon implant at the moment, it last for five years.basically its like maybe an inch anda half long thing that looks like a toothpik inserted under the skin of your upper arm. it releases the same hormones as the mini pill.

it has the same side effects as all the other contraceoption. but what happens to most people is that they completely lose their period.

oh no. please somebody stop! make it come back. yeah right! of coure, if you don't lose it alltogether you will probably be very irreglar (like 1 every few months out of the blue)

implanon is 99.98% effective (according to the brochure i received at the doctors) but here are some thoughts on it.

Get someone who knows what they are doing to insert it - i had a doctor who hadnt done many and it caused a bit of pain.

you will get a bruise and your arm will be in pain for about 24-48 hours

at the end of the three years the implanon will have to be removed. they make a small incision and take it out. if you are having a new one put in they will put it in the same incision.

the toothpick things do occasionally move or go missing in your body- BUT YOU KNOW IT HAS BEEN PUT IN, AS YOU ARE MADE TO TOUCH IT IN YOUR ARM IMMEDIATELY AFTER IT IS INSERTED!

it is good for people who have been unsuccessful using the pill (ie. they have fallen pregnant, i dont mean that ehy forget to take it or feel ill)

I was really squeemish about it



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      JadieLady
August 2006 | JadieLady
IUD
but i swear by it now  :)


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allyp
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | allyp
IUD... MY story

I had an IUD and I will never get it again. I will even tell people who are thinking about getting it, not to get it.. Why? Because when I got it, I was in alot of pain.. no biggie right? Well the doctor then said that the pain would go away within a few hours....... The pain didn't go away.

To come to that, I had to go to the hosptial, and they did an ultrasound and whatever other test's they have done. And the IUD was up in my uterus, it had poked through it, punchering it and scarred it... They had to schedule me for surgery, and I got in within 2 days.. They removed it and it took me 2 yrs to get pregnant because all of this.. This is true, no lies.. Why would I lie about something like this?

Now tell me, is that not scary? I sure as hell think it is. So I am against IUD's

That's my story and it was horrible...



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      BebeBuzz
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | BebeBuzz
IUD... MY story
wow, thats a horrible story!!! I am very happy with the Pill and your story just makes me that much happier that I decided against the IUD!


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           allyp
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | allyp
IUD... MY story

it is a very horrible story. i'm on the pill right now to actually(i'm very much happy with it also).. i used to forget to take the pill, but now i don't..

there's even birth control called Depo Pro Vera(its the shot one) i think if your breast feeding you can't have it.. but it also has it's side effect's(i was on it for over a year) you can gain weight, or lose weight... both happened to me but i kept the weight on  even when i got off of it

but ya for sure the pill works great so i think!!!



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                Izzy
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | Izzy
Pills

As long as you tell the OB/GYN that you plan on breastfeeding, he/she can prescribe pills that will not affect breastmilk production.



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      Izzy
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | Izzy
IUD... MY story
Wow, Ally. That was a horrible experience. I'm glad there was no lasting damage and that you finally got pregnant. 


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           allyp
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | allyp
IUD... MY story
It was horrible and it'll never happen again. If i wasn't able to get pregnant, then I was going to sue my doctor. I'm also glad that there was no lasting damage.
I was told that I wasn't able to have kids and then one day i took a pregnancy test and there I was pregnant first time ever  it was great new's i've ever heard


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      TrishySwishy
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | TrishySwishy
IUD... MY story
So sorry for you to have to deal with that!  My doctor allways told me IUD's really shouldn't be put in untill you've had your first child allready.  I have to say that I have an IUD right now and I love it.  Best birth control I've ever used.  Mine is sapposed to last 3 to 5 years and has no hormones.  I have not had any bad side effects so far.  All those side effects posted in this article sound like alot of side effects for other birth control too so I think people need to realize that.  Obviously though...what you went through is horrible and that wouldn't happen on other birth control.  I was on the pill for 13 years and after I went off it, it took me almost 2 years to get pregnant so that's part of the reason I chose the IUD too.  I guess really it's all about what works for you and if your willing to take that chance.  Also, I had someone telling me that it was working great for them before I had mine put in, so if I had heard your story...mabey I wouldn't have.  But so far I love it.


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           monyq83
December 2006 | monyq83
IUD... MY story
yep im with trishy on this one. sorry allyp that you had to go thru such a horrible ideal, but obviously this is rare, and also why it can be a bit of a hassle trying to find a doctor that will instert IUDs. for those of us though, who can find a good doctor, IUDs can be a godsend. I cant rave about em enough. I got mine put in about 6mths ago, and I couldnt be happier with it. I wont lie, when it was first put in, it was hell. I had no anaesthetic, and in it went. my god did it hurt. but i grinned and bared it, as i was hell bent on getting one because i could never remember to take the pill, the injection made me bleed, and i didnt like the thought of implanon. The first few days were hell. i cramped so bad i thought i was having a misscarriage. at one stage i nearly threw up from the pain. i was soooooo close, i cant tell you how close i was, to going back to the doctor and demanding that she took it out, but i thought, the cramping is only temporary, il just see what happens. by a week the cramping had gone but the bleeding still remained. for 3 months. i cant stress how much this peed me off. but again, i kept thinking, youve gone this far, you can do it. the bleeding finally stopped (halleluliah) and now i bleed very rarely, extremely lightly, almost not at all, and this lasts for 2 days max. this is how its meant to stay for the next 4 and a half years. for everything i went through, i can live with that!!!


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           cheleinkal
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | cheleinkal
IUD... MY story
I'm with you Trishy.   I think whay ever ones they are using over there in America and Canada are maybe not as good as aussie ones .

My Dr tried to talk me out of getting one as I hadn't given birth yet, but I made the decission and I had it put in under a general annathetic in a hospital day surgery, no pain at all.  I think your Dr. was maybe not so great at puting them in Ally.  You certainly had bad luck, but that's more like what it was.....LUCK, nothing is 100% and if we hope we aren't going to be that unlucky 1% then we are just wishing misfortune on someone else. 

We can only do what feels right for us.


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      Jessgore
October 2006 | Jessgore
IUD... MY story
OK no IUD for me... Sorry to hear about that. SOunds horrible... Like I said no IUD for me. Thanks for sharing\


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