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Life Insurance and Beneficiaries

rusha by rusha Talking Back(August 2006) (rank 148th)
Today was a day like any other, the birds were singing in the trees, the sun was blazing and my son and I were happily playing in the shade. The only thing that separates today from any other day is that I just bought life insurance.

I had
never thought of wills or life insurance or what will happen after I die, until I gave birth to my son. In the early moments of his life, when he was curled up in my lap snoozing after a 3 a.m. feed, all I could think about was what would happen to my precious son if my husband or I were suddenly called home. Would he be loved and cared for? Would he miss us? More importantly, would he be financially stable?

I must admit, my husband and I thought about life insurance for awhile before we purchased it. With an unexpected baby (albeit wanted and well loved), it made finances tight and we have a strict budget - so it was hard to plan for anything extra. Still, we felt that life insurance was vitally important. I cannot even begin to describe the peace that I feel knowing that if I were to die in my sleep or in an accident in the next few days that my husband and my baby would be okay.

Now that I have that covered, my next step is creating a well and securing a beneficiary, both of which I am actively pursuing. It is so important to me that my baby be cared for when I am gone.

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exquisite-flower
November 2006 | exquisite-flower
Loads out there

This is something to do specifically and with great premeditation.  Talk to friends and family and those who will be involved if you can.  Be aware of all the options and all the different angles. 

I am in the process of drafting my final will.  It hasnt got much in it at all so far, mainly just care for E.  I intend toword it to cover most eventualities so that if I dont draft another one all outcomes are covered.  It will be legally correct, and i will get it witnessed by my friend who is a nurse and save myself the hundreds of pounds that some law firms will charge you for the honour.
Peace
EF.x 



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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Jessgore
Insurance....

I am not sure what it is called or if it is available in all countries..  For example it pretty much does what a will does, and makes sure you and your family is provided for should you become unable to make decisions for yourself, or physically unable to care for yourself or your family.  

As for the will we got one done when we built the house, it needs to updated to fit our son in as well... But we will do that tout suit.



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dolphins30
October 2006 | dolphins30
wills and life insurances
After christmas we are all doing our wills etc. I also think it's a great idea to do one, especially having a toddler.


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JadieLady
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | JadieLady
will and life insurance

i would lvoe to get life insurance but it is jsut so expensive, especially for someone my age. i am on a strict budget too, to the extent i have 2.50 left over at the end of every week. there is no way i can afford it. but i am going to get a will done.

as i used to work fora lawyer, i kow it is inexpensive to get a wil done through them, they will always be binding, and can easily be chnged at any time. I am getting this done as soon as i can afford it.



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TrishySwishy
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | TrishySwishy
Life insurance...
Yes my hubby and I have done this too.  We still have to get on the bandwagon and create that will and figure out a trustee if something were to happen to the both of us.  How do you plan on writing your will?  Some people tell me to go to a lawyer, others tell me you can do it yourself just the same by buying the kits or downloading them from some site?  Anyone know?


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      rusha
5.00 (Excellent) | August 2006 | rusha
Life insurance...
I asked my Dad about it yesterday. He said that you can do it yourself, either by writing it out by hand (actually your handwriting, not on the computer) or by downloading forms. You MUST find one that is a Canadian Legal Will though, since you're Canadian. Here is a site that I found that we are planning on using, hope that helps!

http://www.truehelpfinancial.com/members/will/Estate.pdf


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Izzy
4.00 (Good) | August 2006 | Izzy
Wills & Life insurance

My husband updated our life insurance a couple of weeks after our son was born. But I must admit, we don't have a will. I thought about it once, but haven't acted on it.  Good advice.



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