Seeking praise is normal but love isn't the same. I think its important to look within ourselves and find strength and happiness there rather trying to please others (which doesn't neccessarily bring true happiness.)

My mother didn't really praise me as a child (eg. Well done, you're so clever, smart, pretty, good etc) and its sometimes hard to know how she feels about things. But she graciously supports me without agreeing or disagreeing. Rather than seeking praise maybe support is what you can appreciate.

I think you need to sit down and have a calm honest chat with your mum letting her know that you no longer need mothering yourself.  Let her know that you think you are doing a great job and that even though you may do things different than her (or your sisters) doesn't necessarily mean that they are the wrong way.   Last time i checked there was no manual on how to be a mother with a "Do or Dont List" and you need to let your mum know this but in a kind and thoughful way so as to avoid an arguement.  Another useful comment i have used several times now are "I am glad that worked for you Mum but i have found this way works best for me.  But thanks for the advice anyway" - i lets them know that you listen to them but have a mind of your own and are capable of being a Mum yourself.  Good luck and i hope your relationship with your mum improves as they can be a fantastic support base.

well, you are unique and your own person. you can listen to advice, but you have to make decisions on your childrens' behalf. there is only 1 u and nobody can be a better job at being u, than u. good luck and just do what you feel is best. nobody is perfect, ot even people passing on advice. sometimes its easier for other to see our faults, than their own, so dont even be bothered