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We should teach our children about sexual transmitted diseases

peace613 by peace613 Standing(January 2009) (rank 500+)

Re: Advise on awareness to sexual transmitted diseases
anonymous

Question:
 

 How can I give advice to my 2 teenage sons on how sexual transmitted diseases is contracted? Is it too early?



My Advice:

Hi,

No matter

the age of your sons I do not think that it is too early. If they are real young then you would just go into less detail and make it age appropriate. But if they are teens the likely hood is that they are already talking about it with their friends or at least they talk about sexual activity with them. The problem is that you don’t know what the friends are telling them.

I feel that it is important to give them all the information so that just like everything in life they can make an informed “wise” decision. You also want to keep the communication lines between you and them open. This way if they have a question they will come to you instead of Johnny down the street.

Being boys they may not feel comfortable having this conversation with you. Some basic information can be covered without embarrassing them too much. You can also find a sight that you agree with and show it to them. Here are a few that I found. I have not looked at them extensively but really that would be up to you. We are sure to have different ideas of what is right.

Teen Source where teens

 

http://www.teensource.org/

For teens by teens

 

http://www.sexetc.org/

 

1 in 4 teens has an STD

 

http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/world/2008-03/12/content_6528138.htm

Std affecting 80% of all women. Even boys need this information.

 

http://www.savvymiss.com/love-advice/sex-advice/sex-sex-sex-archive/article/help-its-hpv-597.html

Today’s world really is very unsafe. I would start as soon as possible in a kind and gentle way. Ask them questions as well to see what they do understand. Sometimes this is enough to start the conversation and may open questions that they want to ask.

I hope this is helpful.

Peace613

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llmunchkin
January 2009 | llmunchkin
Re: We should teach our children about sexual transmitted diseases

I don't believe today's world is any less safe than the world has been before, however we are in a position to ensure that our children are better protected by arming them with the knowledge they require to protect themselves.  Talking to kids from an early age in a frank manner about their bodies, using correct anatomical names and allowing for free speech about these topics in the home will make it easier down the track when they are teenagers.  Find out what programs their school provides in sex education and make sure that they are up to date and down to earth, some are still out of the dark ages.

Giving pamphlets, books and links online to them are a great start, then you can discuss the information with them and ensure that they understand it properly and ask them what action they intend to take to avoid unwanted pregancies and sexually transmitted diseases.  It is good to get some protection and leave it on hand, rather than running the risk of a disaster happening.  Some people may see this as condoning teenage sex; however each household has it's own rules and regardless of them; if your teenager decides they want to do 'IT' they will.  If you don't feel you are getting through to your teen, take them to a professional to confirm all you have said, one mistake on their part could change their life forever... Or end it prematurely.



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