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We should teach our children about sexual transmitted diseases |
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by peace613 (January 2009) (rank 500+) |
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Re: Advise on awareness to sexual transmitted diseases
anonymous
Question:
How can I give advice to my 2 teenage sons on how sexual transmitted diseases is contracted? Is it too early?
My Advice:
Hi,
No matter
the age of your sons I do not think that it is too early. If they are real young then you would just go into less detail and make it age appropriate. But if they are teens the likely hood is that they are already talking about it with their friends or at least they talk about sexual activity with them. The problem is that you don’t know what the friends are telling them.
I feel that it is important to give them all the information so that just like everything in life they can make an informed “wise” decision. You also want to keep the communication lines between you and them open. This way if they have a question they will come to you instead of Johnny down the street.
Being boys they may not feel comfortable having this conversation with you. Some basic information can be covered without embarrassing them too much. You can also find a sight that you agree with and show it to them. Here are a few that I found. I have not looked at them extensively but really that would be up to you. We are sure to have different ideas of what is right.
Teen Source where teens
http://www.teensource.org/
For teens by teens
http://www.sexetc.org/
1 in 4 teens has an STD
http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/world/2008-03/12/content_6528138.htm
Std affecting 80% of all women. Even boys need this information.
http://www.savvymiss.com/love-advice/sex-advice/sex-sex-sex-archive/article/help-its-hpv-597.html
Today’s world really is very unsafe. I would start as soon as possible in a kind and gentle way. Ask them questions as well to see what they do understand. Sometimes this is enough to start the conversation and may open questions that they want to ask.
I hope this is helpful.
Peace613