definetly follow your own instincts there is too much focus on these self help books these days some times you can just get an overload of information.

some great advice thanks for sharing xxx

I parent from instinct as a rule, my son doesn't really have a routine as somedays he doesn't need or want a nap and other days he will nap for a few hours. This is what works for us so this is what we do.

I believe in following my own instincts too, however it doesn't hurt to learn from the mistakes of other's, why repeat them if you can avoid them?  You are very strong willed, as am I; so we probably find it easier than the average mum to have faith in our decisions.

Mind you, faith in yourself comes from experience, so maybe everyone should move forward in little steps and as they prove themselves to be correct when make smaller decisions, they may feel more confident when making more important ones... Especially when it comes to questioning medical opinions and asking for a referral, alternative or seeking advice.

Good for you, mcm!

... and great balance: being informed, and trusting your own instincts/values to decide how you should respond to or apply that knowledge.