Love is a many splended thing
You are right and I have told my baby I love her since the day she was born, I make a point of doing it. I don't agree with the taking them to McDonalds as teaching good nutition is part of loving them, why not take them to a park on a picnic, fresh air excercise family play healtier all around & more loving and special. Also there's nothing wrong I believe in letting your children know that you believe in them enough to think they can try harder and improve themselves. If you praise a child for a mediocre repot, they are unlikely to try for anything other than mediocre, when perhaps they could have worked a little harder, and learned a little more. Saying that they did soo well in a, b & c, but lets see if you can do as well next time in d & e & f is encouragement and instilling in them a desire for personal growth. Every action we do as parents is based on love, even if sometimes it's tough love. Over all your sentiments are great
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