whenever a child wets their bed they think that it is all their fault they dont understand things like genetic problems and bladder disorders so the best thing you can do is make you child feel better.                           

1. praise your child. because bed wetting can be caused by genetic problems at home stress school stress or fear of something.  children believe that it is there fault that this is happening to them and that something must be wrong with them.

2.  tell them that they will outgrow it. you dont know how or when but they will and that you and the doctors and anyone important in their life is there to help them and be with them. by tlling them this enough they will believe it and children need to grow out of bedwetting both emotionally and physically. because there state of mind can sometimes be a big part of it.

3. tell them you are proud of them. children will do anything to make people proud of them.  especially if they stay dry of a night time. even if they only stay dry one night a week, make sure they know you are proud of them for that one night.

4. let them know that you can do this with them. and that you can be there for them. kids need to know that their parents dont blame them for what is happening.

5. tell them you love them. children feel embarressed as well and they also feel that they are embarressing or letting down their parents.  when children do something wrong they believe that their parents and the people around them will stop caring about them. they need to know you care.